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Amy Mcmahon

My partner hides their phone, why?

I've noticed my partner (26M) always hides their phone screen when texting or using social apps around me (25F). It's starting to bother me, as he never used to do this before. I haven't seen any other signs of suspicious behavior, but it's making me feel insecure. Should I bring this up with him or am I overreacting? Any advice? #WhatWouldYouDo #TrustIssues #RelationshipAdvice

amandapotter

Should I Confront My Partner's Friend?

My (29F) partner's friend (33M) has been overly flirtatious with me whenever we hang out together. At first, I thought I was just imagining things, but it's becoming more noticeable. I feel uncomfortable but also awkward bringing this up to my partner. Should I talk to my partner about this? Or am I overreacting? How do you handle situations involving friends of your significant other? #WhatWouldYouDo #RelationshipAdvice #Boundaries

jonathanlozano

is she confused or just not into me? her words broke me

Met her end of Feb. Thought we were vibing—coffee dates, movie nights, sleepovers, no hookups. It felt soft, real. Then we slipped into that blurry “more than friends, less than dating” mess. She kept seeing other guys, but we acted like we were something. I told her I really liked her. Not for the looks, but her whole being. And she just… cried. Said she’s overwhelmed, doesn’t feel the same spark she felt with toxic dudes before. Said I’m too “healthy” and that scares her. But also, she doesn’t wanna lose me?? So now I’m stuck with zero closure and a cracked heart over a not-quite relationship. What even is this? #situationships #relationshipadvice

robersonchristina

23 and Never Learned to Drive—Feeling the Pressure 😔

I’m 23, and I’ve never learned to drive. It’s not that I don’t want to—it’s that the thought of being behind the wheel makes me physically shake. People don’t get it. They keep telling me to just try it, and it’ll pass, but I’ve tried, and the fear is still there. It’s exhausting. I hate this feeling. I’m in a happy relationship, and my boyfriend is super understanding, but a part of me worries it might become a big issue. I feel so alone in this sometimes. Why can’t I just get over it like everyone else seems to think I should? Has anyone else experienced this? Any advice or just some empathy would be really appreciated. Thanks. #DrivingAnxiety #FearOfDriving #NeverLearnedToDrive #RelationshipAdvice #MentalHealth

Marcus Reid

your partner hates your hobby? what if they joined anyway?

Love isn’t about turning your partner into your clone. It’s about letting them into your world. I’m deep into craft beer. Not just drinking it—brewing it, geeking out over hops, hitting up brewery tours. My girlfriend? Couldn’t care less… but she always helps with the last step when I brew. Every time. No asking, no guilt. Just support. She’s obsessed with Disney. So yeah, I’ve done the park thing, movie nights, even sat through those musicals. Do I love it? Nah. But she does. And that matters. We don’t pretend to love the same stuff. We show up for each other’s passions. That’s what makes it work. #relationshipadvice #loveinreallife #partnershipvibes

elizabethpalmer

why am i crushing on a guy who isn’t my husband?

Been with my husband for 10+ years and he’s the absolute best. We just got married last year. But now I’m randomly catching feelings for a guy I barely know?? We only see each other once a week for work stuff, barely even talk, and yet…here I am watching his stories and thinking about him way too much. He never made a move. I was actually the one who DM’d first (just to chat, no flirting). Now I feel super guilty even though nothing has happened. I love my husband and don’t want to mess this up. Anyone else been through this? How do you shut your brain off? #relationshipadvice #marriedlife #help

eric72

is pushing your bf off a cliff just “funny” now?

My girlfriend is spontaneous to the max, but lately it’s been scary. She once tickled me while I was driving in heavy traffic (nearly caused a crash), and last weekend, she shoved me toward a steep cliff while laughing. I legit almost fell. She apologized later, said she didn’t think I’d get mad, but like?? Who does that? I love her, but now I’m wondering if this is just immaturity or if I’m ignoring huge red flags. Am I being dramatic? #relationshipadvice #toxicbehavior #needhelp

joshua44

why did my gf wake me up at 3am just to say she kissed someone?

My girlfriend and I were together for 5 years. Things were rocky lately, sure, but I still loved her. One night—3am—she calls me crying, says she can’t sleep, and confesses she kissed another guy. I was literally asleep. She chose to go out with him, then chose to wake me up and drop that on me like a grenade. I haven’t talked to her since. It’s been almost a month. And yeah, I know I need to move on. But the way she did it? Not a conversation, no closure, just chaos and silence. I'm stuck wondering: was that honesty or guilt-purging? Like, why tell me then? Appreciate any perspective—because this whole thing just feels surreal. #relationshipadvice #breakupconfessions #emotionalwhiplash

myersclaudia

said you’d love her forever? then why the 180 now? 😵‍💫

Fellas, listen. If you came in like a dream, don’t turn into a disappointment. Nothing crushes her faster than a love that fades right after she’s all in. 💡 Keep your promises. Can’t make it? Tell her before, not after. 🧠 Don’t just talk big—show up in the small stuff. Remember her fav snack? Grab it. 📅 Birthdays, anniversaries, random “I miss you” texts? They matter. ❤️ She wants to feel loved, not just hear it. Plan a date, cook her dinner, do something. 🗣 Listen to her, especially when she’s not her best. That’s when it counts most. 😤 No sleeping mad. Apologize first. Fix it before it festers. She’s not asking for the world. Just a love that stays consistent. #datingtips #relationshipadvice #dontswitchup

Melissa Ellison

what should I do after finding out this secret between them?

I’m in a tough spot. My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have 2 kids. I’ve always trusted him completely. Recently, I went to visit my sick mom, and while I was away, my best friend found out her husband cheated on her. She called me in tears, and I told her she could stay at our place. Here’s where things get complicated: I noticed that my husband and my best friend had been messaging each other a lot while I was gone. I ended up snooping on the messages and found out that something happened between them. My husband says I deserve to know, but my best friend wants to keep it a secret. I don’t know what to think or do now. I feel completely blindsided and have no one to talk to. Has anyone been through something like this? How do I handle this situation? #betrayal #relationshipadvice #trustissues

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