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Sarah Colon

Coping with Being Unliked by Family​💔

Ever since I started thinking independently, I’ve been the “problem child” in my family. While I’m fun and well - liked by my in - laws, my relatives just don’t get me. They find me boring. Since I was 16 and formed my own opinions, I noticed that the most popular thing to do was to be bland and hide my interests. Every mundane event in my life becomes a big deal when they ask about it. I’ve had my current job for five years, yet they still ask if I like it. On the other hand, my long - term relationship with my future wife, which is longer than my time at that job, is never questioned. I have a rich spiritual life that’s different from my childhood faith. My mom still tries to make me feel guilty for not performing in the church I left ten years ago. After years of trying to connect, I realized they don’t really know me. I used sock puppets to communicate with them for over a decade. They loved the puppets because they were easy - going and didn’t challenge the status quo. But they don’t like the real me. Now, I’ve distanced myself from my family to focus on me and my future wife. They miss the sock puppets, but I won’t go back. How do you deal with the pain of not being liked by family? How do you accept that the family that once loved you now ignores your true, healthy self? #FamilyRejection #SelfAcceptance #FamilyDynamics #PersonalGrowth #MovingOn

Coping with Being Unliked by Family​💔
Voice inside You

Do Looks Really Matter? My Journey with Self-Image and Acceptance

Let’s be real—good looks open doors. I was always the good-looking kid, but everything changed when I started struggling with my weight as a teen. Later, I learned it was due to a pituitary tumor causing high cortisol and Cushing syndrome. This made me shy away from dating and miss out on young love. In my 20s, I tried extreme diets, desperate to fit in. When I finally looked healthier, people treated me differently, and dating became easier. But stress and my condition brought the weight back. Even now, I wonder if looks are worth risking surgery for. What’s stopping us from embracing our best selves? Do you think looks are worth the risk? Share your thoughts below! #spiritualgrowth #selfacceptance #bodyimage #healingjourney #Spirituality

Do Looks Really Matter? My Journey with Self-Image and Acceptance
stuartmichella

Realizing I’m Not Alone in My Hair Loss Journey

Since my own hair thinning began, I find myself noticing other people’s hair in a way I never did before. Today, sitting quietly in the back of a meeting, I realized that many of the women around me also had some thinning at the crown. And a few weeks ago at a doctor’s appointment, I saw a nurse whose part showed that familiar delicate pattern. I would never point these things out — not out of shame, but out of a kind of quiet respect. And strangely, noticing it made me feel... lighter. For so long, I carried around this fear that I was alone — that everyone else had perfect, thick, effortless hair while I was struggling. But seeing that others are living, thriving, and beautiful with the same experiences softened something in me. It helped lift some of the jealousy I didn’t even want to admit I was feeling. It helped me feel less isolated. It reminded me that what we often think sets us apart actually connects us in a really human way. I’m still learning to be kind to myself. But moments like these — moments of unexpected connection — make it a little easier. If you've ever had an experience like this, I'd love to hear. Or even if you’re still on the journey — know that you're not walking it alone. 🖤 #HairLossJourney #YouAreNotAlone #SelfAcceptance #SharedExperiences #HealingTogether #RealTalk #LearningSelfLove

Realizing I’m Not Alone in My Hair Loss Journey
valentinajoshua

When Did You Truly Feel Yourself Aging — And How Did You Face It?

It’s not just about celebrating another birthday or hitting a certain number. It’s about that first real moment when you felt it — physically, mentally, emotionally. Maybe it was the first grey hairs, feeling a bit slower getting out of bed, realizing you can’t pull all-nighters anymore, or simply noticing your values and priorities have shifted. For me, it hit last year, around 60. It wasn’t the number itself — it was seeing my skin change. Almost overnight, I felt self-conscious about wearing shorts or showing my arms. The skin looked thinner, more delicate. I started going to the gym and taking better care of myself, but it still felt like a line had been crossed. For the first time, I truly focused on aging — realizing some things will change no matter what, and that's okay. Have you had your own “wake-up” moment? How did you deal with it? #LifeAfter60 #AgingJourney #SelfAcceptance #BodyPositivityAtAnyAge #EmbraceTheChange #HealthyLiving #AgingWithGrace

When Did You Truly Feel Yourself Aging — And How Did You Face It?