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TwilightTarantula

My Husband and Our Best Friend’s Texts: I was really stimulated！ 🤡🔥

I never thought I’d be the jealous wife, but here I am, spiraling. My husband (26M) and our best friend (28F) have always been close, but I recently stumbled on their texts—and wow, I wish I hadn’t. They call each other “mommy” and “daddy,” joke about threesomes, and toss around sexual innuendos like it’s nothing. I feel angry, confused, and honestly, a little betrayed. We’ve always been open, but this feels like a slap in the face. Am I overreacting? Should I confront him or just let it go? I need advice before I lose my sanity. Please, tell me I’m not crazy for feeling this way! 😤🤯🙃 #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #EmotionalRollercoaster #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships

My Husband and Our Best Friend’s Texts: I was really stimulated！ 🤡🔥
BambooVoyager

My girlfriend doesn't care about my trauma 😳🤯

Last night, my girlfriend and I were just chilling in our tiny Brooklyn apartment. She started venting about how every woman she knows has faced harassment. I agreed, but when I mentioned that men can be victims too, she rolled her eyes and said, "All men think about is sex." That stung, but I decided to open up about my own childhood trauma—how I was taken advantage of by someone I trusted for years. She just brushed it off, saying guys dream of older women and that I seemed fine, so it couldn't have been that bad. Honestly, I felt so angry and lost. How can I trust her with my feelings if she doesn't believe me? I keep wondering if she's hiding something too. Am I overreacting? How do you rebuild trust when your pain is dismissed? I just want to feel heard. Have you ever felt this way? 😤😵‍💫🤡 #TrustIssues #RelationshipStruggles #EmotionalSupport #MenCanBeVictims #Communication #RomanticRelationships

My girlfriend doesn't care about my trauma 😳🤯
CosmosCrafter

Is My Husband’s Online Affair Still Cheating? 🤡💔

After 19 years together and two teens, I never thought I’d be here. My 37-year-old husband has been having an emotional (and maybe more?) affair with a 20-year-old girl he swears he’s never met. But I’ve seen their messages—"I love you," late-night FaceTimes, and even a photo of me in lingerie sent to her to make her jealous. The final straw? I caught a $2,000 transfer from him to her. Are they planning to finally meet? I’ve spent almost a year waiting for him to choose me, but every promise is a lie. I’ve crossed lines, checked his phone, and now I’m stuck between anger, heartbreak, and confusion. Is this cheating? Is it time to sell the house and call a lawyer, or is there any way back from this? Honestly, I feel lost. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? I need real advice, not just sympathy. 🤦‍♀️🤬🤷‍♀️ #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #Infidelity #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalAffair #RomanticRelationships

Is My Husband’s Online Affair Still Cheating? 🤡💔
TwirlTulip

My Friend Hit on My Boyfriend?! 😱🤯

Last weekend, my world flipped upside down. Over coffee, my friend (let’s call her Jess) confessed that two years ago, she drunkenly hit on my boyfriend—while I was in the bathroom! She swore nothing happened, and my boyfriend confirmed it, but hearing Jess say, “She’ll never know,” stung like crazy. Now, I’m torn between anger, confusion, and betrayal. How do you rebuild trust when the people closest to you cross boundaries? Should I forgive and move on, or is this a dealbreaker? I feel so lost. Would you cut ties, or try to patch things up? Please, tell me what you’d do—because right now, I’m not sure I can trust anyone. 😤😭🤡 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #FriendshipProblems #Infidelity #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

My Friend Hit on My Boyfriend?! 😱🤯
AzureWhisperer

I almost lost my job because of my stupid boyfriend 😤🤦‍♀️

I never thought my boyfriend would be the reason I almost lost my job. Working from home in New York, I handle sensitive client files—strictly confidential stuff. One day, HR called me in, accusing me of accessing a file I’d never heard of. Turns out, my boyfriend used my work computer to snoop on a file for his so-called 'friend,' Lindsay. His name was on her file, and I was left speechless, angry, and humiliated. He blamed me for having a password he could guess, totally ignoring how he crossed a line. Now, I’m stuck working in a lonely office, barely speaking to him except about our daughter. I feel betrayed and gaslit—like I’m the villain for his mistake. How do you rebuild trust after something like this? Have you ever felt so violated by someone you loved? Please, tell me I’m not alone in this mess. 😩🙃🤬 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #WorkLife #Betrayal #Gaslighting #RomanticRelationships

I almost lost my job because of my stupid boyfriend 😤🤦‍♀️
EclipseExplorer

No matter how much money I make, I will abide by the requirements of my faith. 😤💸

Hey, so I finally told my mom I stopped wearing my hijab after moving to Istanbul for work. I thought earning my own money meant I could finally make my own choices, but wow, was I wrong. My mom acted like I committed a crime, and now she says she can't trust me with anything—especially money. She accused me of being irresponsible and wasting everything I've worked for. My brothers are furious, and my dad is probably plotting how to cut me off financially. I just wanted to manage my own life and finances, but now I'm being treated like I'm reckless with money and morals. How do you deal with family judging every dollar you spend just because you want independence? Any advice on how to keep my sanity (and savings)? 😩💔 #FamilyDrama #FinancialIndependence #TrustIssues #LifeChoices #RomanticRelationships

No matter how much money I make, I will abide by the requirements of my faith. 😤💸
SunnySeahorse

My Girlfriend’s Openness vs. My Boundaries 🤦‍♂️😳

My girlfriend and I have been together for over three years, but lately, I feel like I’m walking a tightrope between trust and discomfort. She’s always been comfortable in her own skin, even undressing in our apartment with the blinds wide open. It drives me crazy—I can’t help but imagine people outside catching a glimpse, and it makes me feel exposed and weirdly protective. She laughs it off, says I’m overthinking, but tries to meet me halfway. Now, she wants to join a women’s empowerment photo expo, sending boudoir shots to a male photographer. I get why she wants to do it, especially after some tough experiences, but the thought of another guy having those pictures gnaws at me. I want to support her, but I can’t shake this discomfort. Am I being unreasonable? Or is there a way to bridge this trust gap without losing myself? Seriously, what would you do if you were in my shoes? 😬🤷‍♂️ I just need someone to tell me I’m not crazy for feeling this way... or am I? #TrustIssues #RelationshipStruggles #PersonalBoundaries #BodyPositivity #RomanticRelationships

My Girlfriend’s Openness vs. My Boundaries 🤦‍♂️😳
KookyKoala

My fiancée has no sense of boundaries when it comes to being with other men 😤🤡

Last weekend, my fiancée and I went to a pool party in LA, and honestly, I left feeling more like a stranger than her future husband. She got cozy with some guy, smoked with him, and they chatted alone for what felt like forever. Meanwhile, I was left on my own, feeling invisible. The guy even made a flirty comment about meeting her, right in front of me! She apologized later, but it stings—especially since she always expects me to be glued to her side at events. What really gets me is the double standard. She freaks out if I talk to other women, but here she is, acting like I don’t exist. Am I overreacting, or is this a real red flag? I’m honestly considering calling off the wedding. Have you ever felt so disrespected by someone you love? I just want to know—how do you rebuild trust after something like this? Or is it already broken? 🤔🥲 Talk to me like you’re my best friend—what would you do? #RelationshipTrust #DoubleStandards #Heartbreak #TrustIssues #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

My fiancée has no sense of boundaries when it comes to being with other men 😤🤡
JaguarBeat

My mother became inferior and sensitive after the divorce 😳🤯

Ever had someone you trust just flip the script on you? That was me last Thursday. My mom, who’s always been my rock, suddenly accused me of loving my dad more just because I agreed to meet his new girlfriend. She went off, crying, telling me to go live with him—my abusive dad! I was stunned, angry, and honestly, terrified. I couldn’t sleep, scared she’d kick me out. Now, I flinch at her voice, and home doesn’t feel safe. She’s acting like nothing happened, but I can’t shake it off. How do you rebuild trust when the person you rely on most suddenly becomes a stranger? I just want things to feel normal again. What would you do if you were me? 😩😵‍💫 #FamilyDrama #TrustIssues #ParentingStruggles #EmotionalRollercoaster #RomanticRelationships

My mother became inferior and sensitive after the divorce 😳🤯