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Regina Walker

Husband died2 mths after finding he had lung cance

My husband was having real bad headaches an done blood work at his doctor's an nothing showed up in them about any sign of cancer or anything like that. But this past January of 2025 my husband had a bad bad seizure (which he has never had one before) and went by ambulance to the hospital to find a large mass on his brain an was sent to another hospital an we was told he had lung cancer and it had spread to his brain. He had 2 brain surgeries and 10 rounds of radiation 1 round of chemo and he went thru rehab before that. but after the chemo he went down quick and Hospice had to come in an there was nothing else they could do for him we didn't even get told all the results of his test until Hospice an they r the ones that told us that the cancer had spread to his lymph nodes and his bones. My husband past away this March 28,2925. We didn't even have time to process any of this. But I think the blood test from his regular doctor should have shown something about the cancer or that something was going on with the headaches instead of just giving him migraine pills didn't send him for a CT scan or anything they could have found it if his regular doctor would have sent him for the scan.

Husband died2 mths after finding he had lung cance
navarrochristopher

“I’m done waiting. I’m DONE. ❗️❗️”

There’s a line in To Kill a Mockingbird: “You never really understand a person until you climb into their skin and walk around in it.” But here's the truth: Even just passing by the road they walked... hurts. Try actually living it. So no — I won’t keep explaining myself to people who never tried to understand. I won’t keep overthinking, overgiving, overwaiting. You think you know me? You don’t even know what it cost to get here. And I’m done shrinking just to make others comfortable. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do for yourself is to stop waiting for understanding that was never coming. I’m not waiting anymore. For apologies, for clarity, for closure. I’m choosing peace. #Entertainment #Books #ToKillAMockingbird #HealingQuotes #LettingGo #MentalHealth #EnoughIsEnough #BookTok #SelfWorth

“I’m done waiting. I’m DONE. ❗️❗️”
bmatthews

I just wanna throw it all away, get a van, and disappear

I feel so incredibly burned out. I have been pushing myself for so long and the work never stops. I am showing up to work every day just to freak out about things that do not even matter. I feel like this job has shaved years off my life. I can feel it now in the pain and the stress and the dread. If I had the money right now I would just get a van and disappear. I know van life is really difficult but honestly I would much rather spend my time supporting my own life instead of some random place that does not care about me and would replace me in a second. I am stuck in this cycle of rent debt and crying. I just need freedom and different responsibilities. I want to spend my time healing and setting my own schedule. I am almost 40 -- and I cannot imagine doing this for the next forty years. #Burnout #Millennials #MentalHealth #VanLife #CareerChange #MentalHealth

I just wanna throw it all away, get a van, and disappear