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Hakuna Matata!

Prove me.

I’ve held my space, quiet, steady, unmoving, while your words flutter like empty feathers promising warmth you never deliver. I see you here, but are you truly present, or just a shadow dancing on the edges of my time? I don’t need your confessions, your soft “I miss you” whispers, or apologies that vanish with the sunrise. I need proof — proof that you can step into the fire of attention, that you can carve me into your day without distraction, without pause. I am not here to be an echo, repeating love into the void. I am the line drawn sharp in sand, the boundary you cannot erase with words alone. Show me, or let me vanish from the corners of your life so completely that absence becomes the loudest answer. I will not shrink. I will not wait forever. I am the weight of my worth, and I will let it fall only into hands that hold it steady. #LostPatienceInLove #PatienceInLoveHasLimits

Prove me.
SurrealSprite

Met My Girlfriend’s Parents. Nearly Blacked Out.

Okay, I have to get this off my chest because I’m still sweating just thinking about it. Meeting my girlfriend’s parents for the first time was like prepping for a job interview where the job is ‘Don’t Ruin Her Life.’ I googled them, stalked their Facebooks, even practiced saying ‘Mr. and Mrs.’ in the mirror. I wore a shirt so stiff it could stand up by itself. I showed up ten minutes early, clutching a bottle of wine I prayed wasn’t cheap. Smiled so hard my face hurt. Tried to remember every random fact my girlfriend fed me (her mom’s obsessed with orchids, her dad hates politics, don’t mention the ex). I even offered to do the dishes and nearly dropped a plate. The whole time, I was so focused on being ‘perfect’ I barely remembered to breathe. Honestly? I wish I’d just chilled out and been myself. If you’re reading this at 2AM panicking, trust me: they’re just people. You’ll survive. (But maybe skip the cologne. Her dad still sneezed for like 20 minutes.) #NoFilter #FamilyDrama #AdultingFail #RomanticRelationships

Met My Girlfriend’s Parents. Nearly Blacked Out.
Mr Keep It A Buck

What Is A High Value Man?

I watch a lot of relationship oriented videos in my free time. Some of the videos I’ve watched have been from “The Godfather” Kevin Samuels. In his videos, he talks about Modern Women and High Value Men. I also find relationship articles the most intriguing to voice my opinion. Because of this, ya boy had an epiphany. Why not make MY OWN ARTICLE?! 😃 So I’ve decided to do just that! What is considered a high value man? To some, a high value man is any man that possesses the three 6s (6ft, 6 figures, 6 pack). Although income may play a factor, to a large majority of ladies.. that IS NOT the case Why is it when a woman (some, not all) encounters a man that possesses the qualities of high value, she doesn’t know what to do with him? He has all the qualities she CLAIMS she’s looking for, but she passes him up for the a-hole that brings her… EXCITEMENT! Then when he does her dirty, she asks… “Where are all the good men?” Have you checked your friendzone? 😂 Anyway, let’s get the conversation started. What are your thoughts? #WhatWomenWantInAMan #SuccessfulMenAndDatingDilemma

What Is A High Value Man?
PrismaticPathfinder

My Cat Is Killing My Dating Game

So apparently there's actual research proving what I suspected - women swipe left on guys with cats. A study of 1,300+ women found that dudes posing with cats are seen as less masculine, more neurotic, and generally less dateable. Over 40% said they'd never consider dating a cat guy. The kicker? Women think we're too feminine because cats are 'feminine pets.' Meanwhile, dog guys get all the matches because puppies scream 'masculine energy.' But here's my hot take: if she can't handle me and Mr. Whiskers as a package deal, she's not the one. My cat has better judgment than most dating apps anyway. He's stayed loyal through three failed relationships and never once judged my 3am cereal habits. To fellow cat dads getting friend-zoned: embrace it. Quality over quantity. Find someone who sees your cat photos and thinks 'relationship goals,' not 'red flag.' #Pets #Cats #catdad

My Cat Is Killing My Dating Game
AlphaAscendant

Building a Godly Relationship: Trust, Prayer, and Patience

One thing I’ve learned on my journey toward a God-centered relationship is that it’s not always about grand gestures or perfect moments. My partner and I made a commitment early on to pray together every night, even if it was just for a minute. There were times when we disagreed or felt distant, but coming together in prayer always reminded us of our shared purpose. Trusting God’s timing and being patient with each other has helped us grow stronger, even through challenges. If you’re hoping for a Godly relationship, start with small, consistent steps and let faith guide your connection. What’s one thing you do to keep God at the center of your relationship? Share your thoughts below! #GodlyRelationship #FaithInLove #RelationshipGoals #Lifehacks

Building a Godly Relationship: Trust, Prayer, and Patience
Kimberly Parker

I’m Done Dating Men Who Don't Care About Their Teeeeeth!!

I’m over 40 and honestly tired of meeting men who skip the basics of oral hygiene and health! I go to the dentist twice a year, brush twice a day, floss daily, get my checkups, even do regular eye exams. Yet somehow I keep ending up across the table from men with bad breath, neglected teeth, or no clue when they last saw a doctor. A while back I went out with a guy whose profile never showed him smiling. I didn’t think much of it until we met in person and he spoke. His teeth were a disaster! He had the money to fix them but just… didn’t. Last week I met a man who has a good job, good insurance, but every time he speaks, his breath has this stale, not-quite-fresh smell! I take pride in looking after my health and it feels like I’m asking for the bare minimum. Should I just start putting “must brush, floss, and see a dentist” in my dating profile??? #DatingOver40 #HealthMatters #OralHygiene #SelfCare #Health

I’m Done Dating Men Who Don't Care About Their Teeeeeth!!