did we just totally mess up our lives by having a baby at 44?

So, here’s the deal. I just found out I’m pregnant at 44, and I’m freaking out a little. My partner and I were not expecting this at all. We love each other, but lately, we’ve been arguing about everything. Now with a baby on the way, I’m worried things will get even harder. He’s excited but also super stressed. I feel like we’re on different pages. I want to be happy, but I’m scared our relationship won’t survive all this change. Has anyone else gone through something like this? Any advice or stories would help so much. I just want us to be a team again. #relationshipadvice #pregnancyjourney #parentingafter40 #helpneeded #RomanticRelationships