When Your Partner’s Friends Make You Question Everything

Why is it that my girlfriend’s nights out with her single, flirty friends turn me into a bundle of nerves? We’ve been together for nearly four years, married for just a few months, and I know she loves me. Still, every time she heads out with her crew—especially the one who treats dating like a competitive sport—I feel this pit in my stomach. Last weekend, while she was out, our cat knocked over a vase and I called her for help. No answer. When she finally called back, I could hear laughter and voices in the background—her friend chatting up some guys. Later, she casually mentioned their conversation about dating dealbreakers, and I couldn’t shake the unease. I trust her, but how do I keep my anxiety from spiraling every time she’s out? I don’t want to be that jealous spouse, but sometimes, it’s tough not to be. Anyone else ever feel like their mind is their own worst enemy? 😅 #relationshipanxiety #trustissues #coupleproblems #emotionalhealth #RomanticRelationships