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I Think My Boyfriend's Bored of Me. Am I the Problem?

Okay, it’s 2AM and I’m spiraling. Does anyone else feel like they’re failing at being a good girlfriend? I KNOW I care about him, but lately, I catch him zoning out when I talk, or he just scrolls through his phone while I’m literally pouring my heart out about my day. I try to ask about his work, listen, even fake interest in his fantasy football league (kill me), but sometimes it feels like I’m talking to a wall. I leave him notes, send goodnight texts, even baked him cookies (which he ate without even noticing the heart-shaped ones, thanks bro). I want to be the girl he brags about, not the one he forgets to text back. I’m trying so hard to be supportive, not clingy, to trust him, to not be THAT girlfriend. But what if I’m just… not enough? Or is this just what happens after a few months? Is anyone else out here overthinking every single thing, or is it just me? I just want to feel like I matter to him. How do you keep the spark alive when you’re the only one holding the match? #NoFilter #RelationshipAnxiety #AdultingFail #RomanticRelationships

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Is Social Media Ruining My Relationship Pace?

Anyone else feel like social media is gaslighting them about what a 'normal' relationship timeline looks like? I’m 23, dating someone I’ve known for ages. We’re both neurodivergent (ADHD + autism), so our vibe is pretty unique. He’s patient, sweet, and honestly, treats me like royalty. But we’ve been dating for 4 months and he still hasn’t slapped an official label on us. Everywhere online says, “If he’s serious, he’ll commit in 3 months!” My ex did, so now I’m spiraling, thinking maybe this means my current guy isn’t that into me. But he’s consistent, communicates well, and even told me he loves me first. He says his parents dated for 5 years before getting engaged, so maybe I’m just overthinking? Is it just me, or is social media making us all neurotic about relationship milestones? Anyone else struggling to tune out the noise and just enjoy what they have? #datingstruggles #relationshipanxiety #neurodivergentlove #RomanticRelationships

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My husband suddenly started dating single girls 😬🤦‍♀️

Ever since we moved to Chicago and started working from home, my husband and I have been together almost 24/7. I always thought I was cool with him having his own life, but lately, his nights out with his single, girl-chasing friends have me on edge. Last weekend, while he was out with his friend who brags about dating five girls at once, our dog slipped away during my walk. I called my husband for help—no answer. When he finally called back, I could hear girls laughing in the background. He said it was just his friend chatting, but the next day, he casually mentioned talking to three girls at the bar about dating dealbreakers. I want to trust him, but my mind spins with doubts and annoyance. Am I overreacting? How do I talk to him without sounding jealous or controlling? I feel stuck between wanting to be the "cool wife" and wanting to scream. Please, tell me—how would you handle this? 😤🙄😵‍💫 #TrustIssues #RelationshipAnxiety #MarriageStruggles #Insecurity #Communication #RomanticRelationships

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When Your Partner’s Friends Make You Question Everything

Why is it that my girlfriend’s nights out with her single, flirty friends turn me into a bundle of nerves? We’ve been together for nearly four years, married for just a few months, and I know she loves me. Still, every time she heads out with her crew—especially the one who treats dating like a competitive sport—I feel this pit in my stomach. Last weekend, while she was out, our cat knocked over a vase and I called her for help. No answer. When she finally called back, I could hear laughter and voices in the background—her friend chatting up some guys. Later, she casually mentioned their conversation about dating dealbreakers, and I couldn’t shake the unease. I trust her, but how do I keep my anxiety from spiraling every time she’s out? I don’t want to be that jealous spouse, but sometimes, it’s tough not to be. Anyone else ever feel like their mind is their own worst enemy? 😅 #relationshipanxiety #trustissues #coupleproblems #emotionalhealth #RomanticRelationships

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