Eight Years Together, But He’s Suddenly Scared of Marriage?

You know, I always thought after eight years together and a year engaged, we’d be picking out wedding colors by now—not debating if we should even get married. But here I am, living with my fiancé, trying to plan our future, and he suddenly tells me he’s terrified of committing to one person forever. Every time I bring up the wedding, he says I’m ruining things by talking about it. Am I crazy for wanting more than just being a forever-fiancée? He even says if we break up, it’s my fault for expecting marriage. I love him, but I’m starting to wonder if I’m selfish for wanting a real commitment. Is it wrong to want to be chosen, not just tolerated? Sometimes I feel like I’m asking for too much, but isn’t eight years long enough to know? 💔 #relationshipstruggles #commitmentissues #emotionalconflict #marriagetalk #heartbreak #RomanticRelationships