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ElectricPhoenix

7 Months, No Title: Am I Just His Secret? 😳💔

I’ve been seeing this guy for almost seven months now, and honestly, I’m starting to feel like a secret. We’ve gone on weekend trips, had amazing dinners, and he’s met all my friends and family. But every time I bring up making things official, he says I’m backing him into a corner. He tells me he’s not seeing anyone else, but I haven’t met a single person from his life. He won’t even add me on Facebook, and his status still says single! He says if I keep pushing, he’ll run, but how long am I supposed to wait? I can’t help but feel like I’m being strung along, even though he puts in so much effort. Has anyone else felt stuck in this weird in-between? I just want to know where I stand. Tell me your stories—I need some advice from someone who gets it! 🥺💬 #RelationshipDilemma #ModernLove #CommitmentIssues #FamilyRelationships

7 Months, No Title: Am I Just His Secret? 😳💔
TwilightTalon

He Proposed But Won't Add My Name to Lease - Red Flags? 🚩💔

After surviving a nightmare marriage with cheating and abuse, I thought I'd found my happy ending. My partner of 5 years proposed on New Year's - my kids finally accepted him, everything seemed perfect! 💍✨ But yesterday shattered my confidence. When I suggested adding my name to his lease (we've lived together 3 years!), he went cold. "You might chuck me out in 6 months," he said. Then during wedding planning, he snapped about me "still talking about weddings" after HE proposed! 😤 Now I'm spiraling. Am I overthinking, or are these major red flags? After my ex left me drowning in his debts, I desperately need security. But his reluctance to truly commit - even after proposing - has me questioning everything. Have you ever felt like your partner wanted the romance but not the real commitment? I'm lying awake wondering if I'm being paranoid or protecting myself. What would you do? 💭 #RelationshipStruggles #SecondMarriage #CommitmentIssues #FamilyRelationships

He Proposed But Won't Add My Name to Lease - Red Flags? 🚩💔
MysticTempo

When Marriage Dreams Meet Introvert Nightmares: My Rollercoaster Ride 💍😱

Last night, I finally blew up. We were sitting in our tiny kitchen, and I just couldn’t hold it in anymore. I snapped, “Are we ever going to get married, or am I just wasting my time?” He looked at me like I’d just asked him to juggle flaming swords. I was angry, confused, and honestly, terrified that I’d built my future on a maybe. He admitted he hates the idea of a big wedding, all the attention, and our families clashing. I felt my heart drop—was this it? But then, he surprised me. He said he wants a life with me, just not the circus. He even suggested a small, private ceremony after I finish law school. I’m still scared, but at least we’re talking. What would you do if you were in my shoes? Sometimes I feel like I’m asking for too much, but is it really so crazy to want both love and commitment? Please tell me I’m not alone in this! 😩💔🤔 #relationshipstruggles #marriagetalk #commitmentissues #coupleconflict #RomanticRelationships

When Marriage Dreams Meet Introvert Nightmares: My Rollercoaster Ride 💍😱
InfiniteImpulse

Four Years, a Child, and Still No Ring—Am I the Problem?

You know, sometimes I wonder if love is just a waiting game where I’m the only one playing. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years, living together for almost as long, and we even have a beautiful three-year-old daughter. But every time I bring up marriage, he finds a new excuse—"I want a unique wedding," "I need to save for a ring," or my personal favorite, "Why don’t you propose to me?" (And when I actually offered, he said he’d say no!) Recently, he finally admitted he thinks I’m too childish and that I need to grow up more. Funny, because I feel like he’s not exactly Mr. Mature either. He says I’m too emotional and make a big deal out of small things, but isn’t that what life is? Family, friends, and all the little messes in between? I just want to feel chosen, not like I’m on some endless probation. Is it really too much to ask for commitment when we already share a life and a child? Or am I just being dramatic again? 😔 #relationshipstruggles #commitmentissues #emotionalgrowth #marriagetalk #modernlove #RomanticRelationships

Four Years, a Child, and Still No Ring—Am I the Problem?
MysteryMint

Eight Years Together, But He’s Suddenly Scared of Marriage?

You know, I always thought after eight years together and a year engaged, we’d be picking out wedding colors by now—not debating if we should even get married. But here I am, living with my fiancé, trying to plan our future, and he suddenly tells me he’s terrified of committing to one person forever. Every time I bring up the wedding, he says I’m ruining things by talking about it. Am I crazy for wanting more than just being a forever-fiancée? He even says if we break up, it’s my fault for expecting marriage. I love him, but I’m starting to wonder if I’m selfish for wanting a real commitment. Is it wrong to want to be chosen, not just tolerated? Sometimes I feel like I’m asking for too much, but isn’t eight years long enough to know? 💔 #relationshipstruggles #commitmentissues #emotionalconflict #marriagetalk #heartbreak #RomanticRelationships

Eight Years Together, But He’s Suddenly Scared of Marriage?
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