When Marriage Dreams Meet Introvert Nightmares: My Rollercoaster Ride 💍😱

Last night, I finally blew up. We were sitting in our tiny kitchen, and I just couldn’t hold it in anymore. I snapped, “Are we ever going to get married, or am I just wasting my time?” He looked at me like I’d just asked him to juggle flaming swords. I was angry, confused, and honestly, terrified that I’d built my future on a maybe. He admitted he hates the idea of a big wedding, all the attention, and our families clashing. I felt my heart drop—was this it? But then, he surprised me. He said he wants a life with me, just not the circus. He even suggested a small, private ceremony after I finish law school. I’m still scared, but at least we’re talking. What would you do if you were in my shoes? Sometimes I feel like I’m asking for too much, but is it really so crazy to want both love and commitment? Please tell me I’m not alone in this! 😩💔🤔 #relationshipstruggles #marriagetalk #commitmentissues #coupleconflict #RomanticRelationships