Not if they are on Xanax… I have been met a few people that way, it never went well because I couldn’t understand what they were experiencing and the constant up and down, and changes were very confusing to navigate. They would withdraw and then force themselves to be social, and then feel shame and shut down, gaslight and blame. Or maybe they are just so relaxed on the meds you are not interacting with them authentically. Their energy levels are low especially for chronic users… no matter how healthy with hikes, meditation or diet they are, their crippling anxiety treated by Xanax makes the to impossible to relate to. If I were similar user perhaps, but if not, it is going to the difficult…. If they are not open to work through anxiety without medication, it is very difficult to date a new person. If it is someone you known well for a while and then they started on Xanax maybe the relationship can go on. But a new person, difficult…