Finally Walked Away From His Red Flags

Six months. That’s how long I let myself believe things would change. I (21F) was seeing a guy (26M) who never wanted to define what we were. I’d cross cities to see him, but he wouldn’t even cross the street for me. Red flags? More like a parade. He’d gush about his ex, compare me to her, and even took me to their old spots. When I opened up about my mental health, he called me "too much to handle." He’d get angry if I cried, called me weak, and never once asked about my day. Oh, and apparently, I’m "too dependent" because I didn’t bring a spare mask—while he’s the one breaking health rules to meet up. Last week, I finally called him out and ended it. No regrets. The only thing I wish? That I’d kept my standards higher from the start. If you’re reading this and ignoring red flags—don’t. You deserve better. #SelfWorth #RelationshipAdvice #RedFlags #RomanticRelationships