Help, My Relationship Is Stuck on ‘Repeat’ Mode

Okay, real talk: I’m terrified I’m becoming the world’s most boring girlfriend. Like, is this how it starts? One day you’re planning wild dates and giggling at 2AM, the next you’re just...watching reruns and arguing about who left the dishes. I keep googling ‘how to spice things up’ and it’s all skydiving-this, bungee-jumping-that. Bro, I can barely afford takeout, let alone a weekend getaway. We tried a new recipe once and ended up ordering pizza anyway. I want to be the fun, spontaneous partner, but half the time I’m just tired and scrolling on my phone. Sometimes I look at him and wonder if he misses the girl who used to plan surprise dates or send flirty texts. Now I’m lucky if I remember to hold his hand on a walk. Does anyone else feel like keeping things exciting is a full-time job? Or is this just what ‘real’ relationships look like after a while? Someone tell me I’m not alone. Seriously. #NoFilter #AdultingFail #RelationshipRealness #NoFilter #AdultingFail #RelationshipRealness #RomanticRelationships