My Partner Won't Fully Quit Smoking Before Baby Arrives 😰💔

I'm 8 months pregnant and feeling so overwhelmed right now 😔 My partner promised he'd quit smoking completely before our little girl arrives, but now he's saying he'll just switch to vaping instead. I told him I don't want him holding our baby after vaping because we don't know how those chemicals might affect her tiny lungs. But he thinks I'm being overly paranoid and says vaping is "totally safe." 🙄 This has caused so much tension between us lately. I just want what's best for our daughter, but he acts like I'm controlling him. Am I being unreasonable here? Has anyone else dealt with a partner who wouldn't completely give up nicotine for your baby? I feel so alone in this struggle and could really use some advice from people who understand 💕 #pregnancy #relationships #parenting #FamilyRelationships