In the pursuit of inner strength and wisdom, stoicism teaches us to focus on what we can control and let go of what we can't. But what happens when the people around us don't share our values, especially in vulnerable environments like homeless shelters, recovery centers, mental health clinics, or online communities? Learning to recognize those who exploit or use others is crucial for protecting our own energy and well-being, whether we're navigating tough circumstances or simply trying to maintain healthy relationships during our recovery journey. Let's dive into six signs to watch out for. 👀 #1 People that are only loyal to you when it benefits them. 👉 Watch out for those 'fair-weather friends'! They show up when it benefits them, ditch when you need help. #2 People who avoid accountability 👉 People who can not admit their mistakes and shifts blame can not be trusted. Accountability is key to growth and trust. Surround yourself with those who want to grow not just "glow". #3 People who gossip to you gossips about you 👉 Gossipers often share info to gain power or feel included. Problem is, this 'power' is usually short-lived and damages relationships. #4 People who change behavior around people in authority or power 👉 People who shift their behavior drastically around those in power, but disrespect those "below" them, are likely insecure and manipulative. It's like they're wearing masks to climb the social ladder, but their true colors show when they think no one's watching. #5 People who disappear during difficult times 👉 Those who vanish on you when things get tough aren't really "there" for you – they're just along for the ride. The ones who stick around, who show up when life gets messy.... those are the ones worth investing in. #6 People who resent your growth 👉 People threatened by your growth often try to downplay your wins or make you feel guilty for leveling up. Real loyalty shows up when they celebrate your progress, not compete