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BlazingBumblebee

All I Want Is a Break! Family Chaos on My Birthday 🎂😩

Lately, I feel like my life is just a never-ending loop of caring for everyone but myself. My partner just started a night shift job, and I thought I’d finally get some time alone at home. But nope—he keeps coming home early, and my dreams of quiet me-time are gone. My daughter’s always around with her online college classes, and I’m also the main caregiver for my parent who has Alzheimer’s and dementia. I love them all, but sometimes I just want to breathe without someone needing me. My birthday’s coming up, and usually we go away for a night, but this year it looks like nobody even remembered. To top it off, my daughter’s boyfriend is always a topic of drama—my partner doesn’t trust him, and my daughter’s covered in bug bites from their hangouts. I know it sounds selfish, but I just want a little space. Does anyone else ever feel like this? Please tell me I’m not alone! 🥺 #FamilyStruggles #CaregiverLife #NeedMeTime #FamilyRelationships

All I Want Is a Break! Family Chaos on My Birthday 🎂😩
TwilightTinker

My Work Phone Make Me Feel Sick 📱🤢

Does anyone else get a wave of nausea every time their work calls or texts? It doesn't matter if it's just a simple message or something serious—I instantly feel sick. Even on my days off, instead of relaxing, I dread the next shift. I'm a live-in caregiver in a small town, but lately, I've been stuck with block hours instead of the full-time schedule I was promised. I've asked to switch, but my boss keeps saying there's "no work"—so why am I even here? I have to keep my phone on me 24/7, just in case, and it's exhausting. I know I have some anxiety, but it only flares up around work stuff. Is this normal? How do you all cope with this constant dread? Any advice would mean the world to me right now. 🙏 #WorkAnxiety #CaregiverLife #JobStress #JobCareer

 My Work Phone Make Me Feel Sick 📱🤢
CraftyCrow

hiking with my wife during her cancer battle

Today, my wife—who’s in the thick of fighting Stage IV breast cancer—told me she wanted to go for a walk. Honestly, I was surprised. She’s been so tired lately, and there’s always that dull pain that just won’t quit. But she insisted, so we packed up and headed to Lake Vesuvius Trail in Wayne National Forest. We didn’t move fast—more like a gentle shuffle than a hike—but every step felt like a little victory. The air was crisp, and the lake shimmered through the trees. I kept worrying if she was pushing herself too hard, but she just smiled and said she needed to feel normal for a while. I can’t lie, I was torn between feeling proud and being scared out of my mind. What if she overdid it? What if she regretted it later? But seeing her enjoy the moment made it all worth it. Have any of you gone on outdoor adventures while dealing with serious illness? How do you balance wanting to live fully with needing to rest? And, does anyone else feel guilty for worrying too much, even when your loved one just wants to feel alive? I’d love to hear your stories, especially if you’ve been to Lake Vesuvius or have tips for making these outings easier. #cancerjourney #hikingwithlovedones #LakeVesuvius #WayneNationalForest #caregiverlife #Travel

hiking with my wife during her cancer battle