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Virginia Holland

When Co-Parenting Boundaries Are Tested at the Beach

Recently, I learned my ex took our kids to the beach and left them unsupervised while he went surfing. As a parent, I was flooded with worry—anything can happen near the water, and I always try to keep a close eye on them. It’s tough when co-parenting values don’t align, especially when it comes to safety. I want my kids to have fun and enjoy the ocean, but their well-being has to come first. Has anyone else faced situations where you felt your co-parent’s choices put your kids at risk? How did you handle it? Let’s share our stories and support each other through these challenges. I’d love to hear your thoughts or experiences in the comments below! #ParentingChallenges #CoParenting #FamilySafety #BeachDays #Parenting

When Co-Parenting Boundaries Are Tested at the Beach
Rebecca Murphy

what docs do I need to bring to my lawyer for divorce? 😳

I’m gearing up to meet with a lawyer about my divorce, and honestly, I have no clue what to bring beyond the basics. Obviously, I’ll bring bank statements and tax returns. But what else? So I’m gearing up to meet with a lawyer about my divorce, and honestly, I have no clue what to bring beyond the basics. Obviously, I’ll bring bank statements and tax returns. But what else? Here’s the situation: we both have our own cars, there’s about $30,000 left on the mortgage, and we have a 10-year-old child. No student loans. My income is $80,000, while his is $60,000. After taxes and expenses, we each clear about $50,000. He works for a union, and I run my own business. I want to make sure I’m fully prepared and don’t miss anything important. What should I have ready to discuss with the lawyer, aside from the usual financial stuff? #divorceprep #legaladvice #coparenting

what docs do I need to bring to my lawyer for divorce? 😳
john54

how do divorced dads stay close to their kids post-split? 😕

I recently finalized my divorce, and now I'm facing the toughest part: selling the house. It was our dream home, but it's too big for me now, and I need to downsize. It's tough, especially losing out on that 2.5% mortgage rate. I'm trying to keep my expenses low and focus on what matters—my kids. I want them to attend a great school, but my ex is looking to buy a place in a neighborhood I don’t want to move to, and her budget is higher than mine. Here’s my dilemma: if I move too far, I won’t be as involved in their day-to-day lives, especially if we're in different school districts. My ex says the kids will go to the school in her district, and I worry that if I don’t stay nearby, I’ll miss out on their friends, activities, and those small moments. Am I overthinking this, or is it worth trying to live closer to them, even if it means spending more? #divorceddad #coparenting #familyfirst

how do divorced dads stay close to their kids post-split? 😕
SereneStarling

My Ex Won't Tell Me Where My Kids Visit Him! 😤

Two weeks ago, my ex-husband moved in with his new girlfriend, and our kids started their weekly visits there. I'm genuinely happy they're enjoying their time with dad - seeing their excited faces when they come back warms my heart! 😊 But here's what's driving me absolutely crazy: he refuses to give me his new address. I've asked multiple times, explaining it's just for emergencies. What if something happens? What if I need to reach them urgently? 😰 I know legally I might not have the "right" to know, but as their mom, isn't it reasonable to want this basic information? I'm not trying to spy or cause drama - I just want peace of mind when my babies are away from home. Am I being unreasonable here? How would you handle this situation? I feel so frustrated and powerless! 💔 #coparenting #divorce #parenting #FamilyRelationships

My Ex Won't Tell Me Where My Kids Visit Him! 😤
MoonlitMirth

My Ex Left Me for Another Woman - How Much Contact Is Too Much? 💔

Three months ago, my world shattered when Jake walked out on our 10-year relationship. Within weeks, he was posting pictures with her - the woman he probably left me for 😞 Now I'm stuck in this awkward dance of co-parenting. He texts about picking up the kids, but then slides into casual conversation about his day or asks how I'm doing. Part of me craves that connection we once had, but another part knows I need boundaries to heal 💭 Last week, he sent me a funny meme totally unrelated to the kids. I stared at my phone for twenty minutes, unsure whether to respond. Are we supposed to be friends now? Is this normal? I'm trying to move forward, but these mixed signals make it so much harder. What's the right amount of contact with your ex when kids are involved? I really need to know I'm not crazy for wanting clearer boundaries 🤷‍♀️ #coparenting #divorce #movingon #FamilyRelationships

My Ex Left Me for Another Woman - How Much Contact Is Too Much? 💔
StarryNightOwl

My Baby Daddy Calls Me Names for What He Did Too 😢💔

Eight years with him, and I'm finally done. Last week, I had to ask Jake to pack his bags after another screaming match in front of our one-year-old daughter, Emma. 😔 It's always the same cycle - he'll yell, call me horrible names, then act like nothing happened for weeks. When we broke up three years ago, we were apart for eight months. We both dated other people during that time. I was honest about my two relationships when he asked. 💭 But here's the kicker - he can't even count how many women he was with, yet he still calls me a slut for moving on during OUR BREAK. Even sent flirty texts to one of them after we got back together! The audacity is unreal. 😤 Now I'm sitting here, wondering if I'm doing the right thing. Emma deserves better than watching her parents tear each other apart. The hole in my heart feels massive, but I know this toxic cycle has to end. Have you ever felt trapped between protecting your child and missing someone who hurt you? I could really use some advice right now. 💕 #toxicrelationships #singlemom #coparenting #FamilyRelationships

My Baby Daddy Calls Me Names for What He Did Too 😢💔
PrismicPanda

My Boyfriend's Ex Won't Stop Haunting Our New Life Together! 😱💔

Moving in with my boyfriend should've been exciting, but his ex-wife keeps finding ways to creep into our happiness. 😤 Every time we're having a perfect evening, her dramatic texts blow up his phone about pickup times or some new complaint about their co-parenting arrangement. Last week, she actually criticized the lunch I packed for his 8-year-old son, calling it "inappropriate" because I used white bread instead of whole wheat. 🙄 I'm trying so hard to be the supportive girlfriend, but honestly? I'm getting exhausted by her constant need to control every little detail of our lives. The worst part is watching my boyfriend stress out every time she contacts him. He tries to hide it, but I can see the tension in his shoulders whenever her name pops up on his screen. Anyone else dealing with a partner's ex who just won't back off? How do you handle the jealousy and frustration? I could really use some advice from people who've been there. 💕 #BlendedFamily #RelationshipStruggles #CoParenting #FamilyRelationships

My Boyfriend's Ex Won't Stop Haunting Our New Life Together! 😱💔
PioneerParrot

Stuck Living With My Ex—And Our Kids! When Breaking Up Isn’t Enough 😩🏠

Ever feel like you’re living in a sitcom, but it’s not funny? That’s my life right now. After 15 years together, my ex and I finally admitted our relationship was over. But thanks to money problems, we’re still stuck under the same roof, trying to keep things normal for our two kids. I’m sleeping on the couch, picking up extra jobs, and counting every penny just to save up for a way out. He pays most of the bills, but refuses to talk about selling the house or even share his finances. Every day feels like walking on eggshells, and the only break I get is when he’s off on his bike trips or I’m housesitting for friends. I’m exhausted, but I want to keep things peaceful for the kids. Has anyone else been through this? How did you cope? I’d love to hear your stories or advice—sometimes it helps just knowing I’m not alone. 💬 #FamilyStruggles #LivingWithAnEx #CoParenting #FamilyRelationships

Stuck Living With My Ex—And Our Kids! When Breaking Up Isn’t Enough 😩🏠