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XenialXylophone

Is He Trying to Turn Me Into His Dead Wife? 😰💔

Hey everyone, I'm completely lost and need your advice! 😔 I've been close friends with this amazing guy for three years - he's sweet, caring, and we have such a great connection. His wife passed away suddenly less than six months ago, and we've grown closer since then. Here's where it gets weird though... 🤔 He wants to take me to the exact same restaurant where he and his wife always went for their dates. He offered to buy me the same perfume she used to wear! When I suggested doing something different, somewhere new, he actually got upset with me. I feel like he's trying to recreate his life with her, but with me filling her role instead. 😢 Am I overthinking this? Have any of you dealt with someone who couldn't let go of the past? I really care about him, but I need to be me, not a replacement for someone else. What would you do in my situation? I'm so confused right now... 💭 #relationships #grief #dating #FamilyRelationships

Is He Trying to Turn Me Into His Dead Wife? 😰💔
MellowMelody

Dumped My Toxic Friend, Matched on Tinder

Six months on dating apps, and my inbox was emptier than my fridge before payday. Out of desperation (and boredom), I wiped my Tinder and started fresh. Suddenly, I had matches. Was my old profile cursed? Or did the algorithm just feel sorry for me? I tried to get advice from my only friend. Big mistake. She basically told me I was a lost cause and even offered to pay for an escort so I could lose my virginity. (Um, thanks?) So, I decided to cut her out. No more self-esteem vampires. I looked in the mirror and realized: I’m not a supermodel, but I’m not a goblin either. I’m decent, and I deserve better. I chatted with a new match who seems genuinely nice. Maybe things are looking up? I’m going to start jogging, grab some new makeup, and maybe a cute cardigan. Not for Tinder, but for me. Here’s to being comfortable in my own skin. #dating #selflove #toxicfriends #RomanticRelationships

Dumped My Toxic Friend, Matched on Tinder
GrazingGazelle

When Your Girlfriend Settles for You—Is Love Enough? 😅

Last night, my girlfriend and I walked along the riverside, the city lights reflecting in the water. She turned to me and admitted she never found me physically attractive—she just didn't want to be alone. Ouch, right? I always thought love was about more than looks, but hearing her say she "settled" for me stung in a way I didn't expect. Still, as we sat on the bench sharing ice cream, I realized how much our dates mean to me. Even if I'm not her dream guy, our laughter and late-night talks are real. Maybe love isn't always fireworks—sometimes it's about finding comfort in someone who chooses to be with you, even if the reasons aren't perfect. Have you ever felt like you weren't enough for someone you cared about? Let's talk about those moments that make dating unforgettable, even when it's complicated. 💬 dating #relationships #selfworth #love #datingstories #dating #relationships #selfworth #love #datingstories #RomanticRelationships

When Your Girlfriend Settles for You—Is Love Enough? 😅
SilhouetteSerpent

When Your Teen's Style Screams 'Love Is in the Air' 😏

Have you ever watched your teenager transform overnight and wondered if Cupid had something to do with it? This summer, my 16-year-old son swapped his skater look for a polished, preppy vibe—think neat polos, khakis, and a smartwatch he suddenly can't live without. Even his glasses, once despised, are now a staple. At first, I was baffled. But then it hit me: the magic of young love. Dating has this uncanny power to make us want to be our best selves, to impress and connect. I remember my own first dates, the butterflies, the effort, the unforgettable moments that still make me smile. Seeing my son dive into this world reminds me how dating isn't just about romance—it's about discovering who we are and sharing that with someone special. Isn't it funny how love makes us all reinvent ourselves? 💫 dating #younglove #teenager #firstlove #transformation #dating #younglove #teenager #firstlove #transformation #RomanticRelationships

When Your Teen's Style Screams 'Love Is in the Air' 😏
SapphireStarlet

One Year After She Left: Turns Out, I’m Still Here 😅

It’s wild how a single date can become a milestone you never wanted. One year ago, my girlfriend of five years left me for someone else. I thought I’d never get over it—like, who was I without her? The nights were the worst, replaying every argument, every laugh, wondering what I did wrong. But here’s the plot twist: I survived. Four months in, I started to breathe again. Now? I barely think about her. I’ve gone on dates, met new people, and realized I’m not as undesirable as I thought. Not every date is magic, but some are, and that’s enough. Being single forced me to face myself, and weirdly, I like who I’m becoming. I still get lonely, but I’m stronger. If you’re reading this and feeling lost, trust me—you’ll find your way, too. Just keep moving, even if it’s just a shuffle. 💪🏼 #breakup #healing #selflove #dating #movingon #RomanticRelationships

One Year After She Left: Turns Out, I’m Still Here 😅
Frank Sims

why does it feel like my girlfriend and i are totally out of sync in bed lately?

Hey everyone, I could really use some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for a while, and things have always been pretty good between us. But lately, things in the bedroom just feel... off. It’s like we’re not connecting the way we used to. Sometimes it feels awkward, and I can tell she’s not as into it. I’m starting to worry that I’m doing something wrong or that she’s losing interest. We’ve tried talking about it, but it just ends up feeling weird or forced. Has anyone else gone through this? How did you get past it? I really care about her and want us to get back to how things were. Any tips or advice would be awesome. Thanks in advance! #relationshipadvice #dating #intimacy #help #coupleproblems #RomanticRelationships

why does it feel like my girlfriend and i are totally out of sync in bed lately?
RadRadiance

is it bad that my girlfriend’s constant texting is making me lose interest?

Hey everyone, I’m kinda struggling here and could use some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and lately, I’ve noticed she wants to be in touch all the time. Like, she texts me nonstop and gets upset if I don’t reply right away. At first, I thought it was cute, but now it’s starting to feel overwhelming. I like having my own space and time to do my own thing, but I don’t want to hurt her feelings. I care about her a lot, but this is starting to mess with how I feel about the relationship. How do I bring this up without making her feel unwanted or pushing her away? Has anyone else dealt with this? I really want to make it work, but I need some breathing room too. #relationshipadvice #boundaries #dating #communication #RomanticRelationships

is it bad that my girlfriend’s constant texting is making me lose interest?
Timothy Manning

Friendship first: The foundation of a serious relationship​

I’ve been on dating apps and met girls who say they’re looking for a “serious relationship.” I always suggest starting as friends since we don’t really know each other yet. Surprisingly, this often leads to them stopping the conversation. I just don’t get it—how is wanting to skip the friendship stage to jump into something serious not contradictory? Samuel Richardson once said that friendship is the highest form of romantic happiness. Those girls probably think “serious” means immediate attraction or desire, but they forget that compatibility goes beyond that. I might not like their personality, or they might not like mine. If you want a happy relationship, you can’t ignore the importance of building a solid friendship first. If they’re truly interested, they’ll be willing to put in the effort. So far, I haven’t found the right person, but I’m not wasting time—I’m filtering out those who aren’t willing to work on a relationship with me. #FriendshipFirst #Dating #SeriousRelationship #Compatibility #EffortInRelationships

Friendship first: The foundation of a serious relationship​