Navigating Family Comparisons and Feelings of Inadequacy💭
I’ve got an older brother who’s what many would call “successful.” He earns more, owns a bigger house, and has a family. Meanwhile, I’m single, working a stable but modest government job. He’s outgoing and sociable; I’m introverted, happiest with solo hobbies like weightlifting and gaming at home.
At family gatherings, especially since he lives far away, my parents can’t help but highlight his achievements. It’s subtle, but I notice the way they speak about him with pride.
It’s tough not to compare myself. But I remind myself that success isn’t one-size-fits-all. My path is different, and that’s okay. I focus on my own goals and happiness, even if they don’t align with societal or familial expectations.
How do you handle comparisons, especially from loved ones? Do you have any strategies for staying true to yourself?
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