What “Bad Parenting” Are You Still Grateful For Today?
A lot of people believe arguing in front of children is harmful. But looking back, I’m grateful my parents didn’t hide their disagreements.
Watching them disagree—calmly, respectfully—taught me that conflict is a part of life. Seeing them talk things out, apologize, and still treat each other with love showed me what real emotional maturity looks like. They didn’t pretend to be perfect; they showed me how to work through imperfection.
Of course, it only works when the argument is about reasonable things, and done in a healthy way. Arguing, not fighting. But thanks to them, I grew up knowing that conflict doesn’t mean the end of love. It can mean growth, strength, and deeper understanding.
What’s something your parents did that others might see as “wrong,” but that you’re thankful for now?
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