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beverlymills

Makeup Shouldn’t Be a Mask

The most powerful makeup isn’t the kind that changes your face—it’s the kind that reveals it. We grew up admiring women like Maggie Cheung, Sophie Marceau, Pan Yuliang. Their beauty wasn’t carbon-copied, but uniquely etched into memory. Even without makeup, you’d still know them. Their looks weren’t “flawless”—they were unforgettable. Somewhere along the way, beauty became a blueprint. Same contour chart. Same brow stencil. Same foundation shade, regardless of skin tone. The internet flooded us with tutorials promising “the perfect face,” but what it really taught us was how to disappear under someone else’s idea of beautiful. Worse, it created a split identity—one for the mirror, one for the makeup. When your bare face and your glam look feel like two strangers, no amount of highlight will bring confidence back. This isn’t about hating makeup—it’s about using it with purpose. Real artistry celebrates differences, not hides them. And if your favorite influencers only teach you how to become someone else, it’s time to unfollow. Beauty isn’t a filter. It’s a signature. #beauty #makeup #identity

Makeup Shouldn’t Be a Mask
BubblyBumblebee

Is It Weird That My Job Isn’t My Whole Identity? 🤔

Sometimes I wonder if I’m the odd one out at work. I’m in the data science field, and while I genuinely enjoy what I do, I just can’t see my career as the centerpiece of my life. Sure, I know I need a job to pay the bills, and I put in the effort, but does that mean I have to let it define who I am? I see colleagues pouring their hearts and souls into their work, wearing their job titles like badges of honor. Meanwhile, I’m just trying to do good work and still have energy left for the rest of my life. Is it wrong that I see my job as a way to make money doing something interesting, but not as my entire identity? Lately, I’ve been feeling out of place, almost guilty for not being as passionate as everyone else seems to be. Has anyone else felt this way? How do you balance ambition with the desire to keep your own identity? I’d really appreciate your thoughts. 😅 #CareerBalance #WorkLife #Identity #JobCareer

Is It Weird That My Job Isn’t My Whole Identity? 🤔
EdgyEucalyptus

Hiding My True Self from My Family—For Safety?

Sometimes, I wonder if anyone else has to fake their whole life just to feel safe at home. I created a whole new identity online, just so my controlling parents wouldn't find out I'm queer. It's wild—my online friends know me as "Alex," a totally different person with a made-up family and even a fake pet dog. 🐶 Every day, I have to remember which stories I've told and which details I've changed. It's exhausting, but the fear of being found out is even worse. I wish I could just be myself without worrying about my family's reaction. Have you ever had to hide a part of yourself from your family? How did you deal with it? Let's talk about it—maybe we can help each other feel a little less alone. 💬 #FamilyStruggles #OnlineSafety #Identity #Confessions #FamilyRelationships

Hiding My True Self from My Family—For Safety?
VividViper

Why Is My Daughter Suddenly a Preppy Queen?

You ever wake up one summer and realize your kid has become a whole new person? That’s me right now. My 16-year-old daughter, who used to rock the skater-girl vibe—ripped jeans, messy hair, pretending not to care (but definitely caring)—has done a total 180. Out of nowhere, she swapped her contacts for glasses (which she used to hate), chopped her hair short, and started wearing her smartwatch like it’s glued to her wrist. And the clothes? Gone are the oversized tees; now it’s all polos and khakis. My husband and I are side-eyeing each other, wondering if there’s a new crush in the picture. Should I ask her what’s up, or just let her reinvent herself? Sometimes I wish I could just read her mind instead of her wardrobe. 😅 #parenting #teenagers #identity #family #change #RomanticRelationships

Why Is My Daughter Suddenly a Preppy Queen?
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