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JollyJuggler

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Should My Partner Help Financially During My Maternity Leave?

Hi everyone, I’m reaching out for some advice as a first-time mom to a 7-month-old baby girl. My partner and I have been together for four years, and I moved in with him just before our daughter was born. He has a well-paying job and covers the mortgage and utilities, while I was responsible for groceries and most of the baby essentials. Now that I’m on maternity leave, my income has dropped to just over $600 a month, and I’m struggling to keep up with groceries, my car payment, and other personal bills. When I brought this up, he said since I’m not contributing to the house bills, I should still be able to handle the food shopping. We keep our finances separate, and he recently bought a new house in his name only. I’m starting to feel overwhelmed and unsure how to manage. Has anyone else faced this? How did you work things out? Please share your experiences below! #MaternityLeave #FamilyFinances #ParentingSupport #FamilyRelationships

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emilyparker

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Declining Financial Requests Without Guilt​

I’m on maternity leave with a 4-month-old and already juggling the needs of my four kids. Despite this, relatives and friends keep asking for financial help—school fees, food, business loans, and more. I’ve helped many times before, like lending my brother money for a business two years ago, but he hasn’t paid me back yet. Recently, my aunt asked for help with her business, and my nephew requested assistance for my sick half-brother. While I feel obligated to help my aunt because she supported my mom when we were kids, and my half-brother is ill, I’m struggling financially myself. The last time I told my brother I had no money to spare, he called me disrespectful. I’ve even lost a childhood friend who thinks I’m proud and refuse to help. How do I politely decline these requests without feeling guilty or explaining my financial situation? Do I owe them a detailed explanation? #FinancialBoundaries #SayingNo #FamilyFinance #MaternityLeave #BoundariesMatter #RomanticRelationships

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Catherine Lane

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The challenges women face after maternity leave​

Returning to work after maternity leave can be a tough transition for many women. Here are some common challenges they might face: 1️⃣ ​​Job Insecurity​​: Your position may have been merged or replaced while you were away. It’s important to communicate with your employer about your role and responsibilities upon your return. 2️⃣ ​​Reduced Energy Levels​​: With a new baby at home, your energy might not be what it used to be. Finding a balance between work and family life can be challenging. These are just two of the many potential hurdles. Other issues might include adapting to new workplace dynamics or dealing with feelings of being overlooked. Employers should be supportive and understanding during this transition. Open communication and flexible work arrangements can make a big difference. Have you or someone you know faced these challenges? Let’s discuss! 👇 #MaternityLeave #WorkLifeBalance #CareerChallenges #Parenting #WorkplaceSupport

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