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My Mom Ignored My Childhood Trauma—Now She Wants to Be Grandma?! 😱

Growing up in Chicago, my life took a dark turn after my dad passed away. My mom remarried, and my stepdad brought pain into our home that I still struggle to talk about. He abused me and my brother, and my mom knew but did nothing—she just walked by, pretending not to see. Now, decades later, she wants to be a part of my daughter's life. She’s never apologized or taken responsibility for what happened. In fact, she spent years calling us liars before finally admitting she knew about the abuse. I feel torn—am I wrong for not wanting her around my child when she’s never even said sorry? Sometimes I wonder if there’s any way to move forward, or if I’m right to keep my distance. Has anyone else faced something like this? I’d love to hear your thoughts and stories. 💔 #FamilyTrauma #MotherDaughter #ParentingBoundaries #FamilyRelationships