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danielle75

why does my husband keep blaming me for things i never did?

Lately, my husband has been pointing fingers at me for stuff I had nothing to do with. It’s like every little thing that goes wrong in the house somehow becomes my fault. I try to talk to him about it, but he just gets defensive or shuts down. I’m starting to feel like I’m walking on eggshells all the time. We used to be able to talk about anything, but now it feels like he doesn’t trust me. I’m not sure what changed or how to fix it. I love him, but this is making me feel really alone in my own home. Has anyone else dealt with this? How did you handle it? I could really use some advice or just to know I’m not the only one going through this. #relationshipadvice #marriagehelp #trustissues #communication #supportneeded

why does my husband keep blaming me for things i never did?
Jessica Gonzalez

how do i move forward after my husband and bff betrayed me?

Last year, my world turned upside down. My husband and my best friend—two people I trusted most—hooked up behind my back. I found out by accident, and since then, nothing feels the same. I keep replaying everything in my head. I feel lost, angry, and so hurt. I thought we had a strong marriage. My best friend was like a sister to me. Now, I don’t know who to talk to or how to trust anyone again. Has anyone else gone through something like this? How did you start to heal? I want to move on, but I’m stuck. Any advice or support would mean a lot right now. relationshipadvice #healing #trustissues #betrayal #supportneeded #relationshipadvice #healing #trustissues #betrayal #supportneeded #RomanticRelationships

how do i move forward after my husband and bff betrayed me?
Carrie Wood

is my boyfriend really ditching me at the hospital because he has a secret wife?

I’m freaking out and need some advice. I’m 23 and about to have my first baby any day now. My boyfriend, who’s 37, just dropped a huge bomb on me. He told me he can’t be there when I give birth… because he’s actually married. I had no clue. I feel so betrayed and confused. We’ve been together for over a year. He always said he was busy with work or family, but I never thought it was because he had a whole other life. Now I’m about to do this alone, and I don’t know how to process everything. I feel stupid for not seeing the signs. Has anyone else gone through something like this? How do I even start to move forward? I’m scared and angry, and I just want to do what’s best for my baby. Any advice or support would mean a lot right now. relationshipadvice #singlemom #betrayed #pregnancy #supportneeded #relationshipadvice #singlemom #betrayed #pregnancy #supportneeded #RomanticRelationships

is my boyfriend really ditching me at the hospital because he has a secret wife?
Vickyyy

Should I pay my deceased mom's debts?​

Last year, I lost my mom (62) to diabetes and MS complications. Her health had been declining since my dad passed in 2017, and I later learned she had incurred debts to her sisters. I was unaware of this because I was overseas, covering her medical appointments, while my sister cared for her. Between 2017 and 2023, my mom also lost a sister to cancer, and I suspect some of the money may have gone toward her treatment or my 90+-year-old grandmother’s care. Now, one of my aunts (70s) has reached out asking me to pay my mom’s debts. There’s no record of this, and it’s not the only aunt demanding money. Her family (my cousin) has been calling non-stop, but I feel conflicted. Should I pay when it seems the money was used for other family members? My cousins insist it’s my responsibility, but I don’t think it’s fair. What would you do in this situation? #DebtAfterDeath #FamilyConflict #GuiltAndResponsibility #EstateIssues #SupportNeeded #RomanticRelationships

Should I pay my deceased mom's debts?​
Michael Marquez

Struggling to hold my family together​

I'm 25, married for two years, with a 6-year-old daughter who’s my world. I work in a dangerous job, earning well to support my wife’s dreams. Recently, my best friend died at work due to a coworker’s mistake. I had to break the news to his girlfriend and have been helping her. To cope, I’ve been going to the gym excessively, avoiding home. Last night, my wife confronted me about my absences. When our daughter interrupted, revealing she’d had an accident, my wife calmly but firmly said I need to “get it together.” She took our daughter, leaving me devastated. I’m struggling to process my grief while fearing I’m losing my family. I don’t know how to handle this. #Grief #FamilyStruggles #SupportNeeded #EmotionalOverload #Loss

Struggling to hold my family together​