solo travel at 44: am i too old for this?
I’ve always dreamed of packing a bag and heading out on my own, but somehow, life kept getting in the way. Now, at 44, I finally booked my first solo trip—and honestly, I’m a bundle of nerves and excitement. My family thinks I’m a little nuts for wanting to wander around by myself when I could just relax at home or stick to our usual group vacations. But there’s this itch I can’t ignore, like I missed out on something in my 20s and I want to see if it’s still waiting for me.
I keep picturing myself sitting in a tiny Parisian café, or maybe hiking somewhere in Vermont, just soaking it all in without anyone else’s schedule to worry about. But then I worry: will I end up just feeling awkward, or worse, lonely? I’m not exactly the type to strike up conversations with strangers, and the idea of eating dinner alone in a busy restaurant makes me a little queasy. Still, I can’t help but wonder if this is exactly the kind of adventure I need at this stage of life, even if it’s a little uncomfortable.
I’ve seen people on the East Coast pull off those whirlwind 4-day Europe trips—leave Thursday night, back Monday morning, barely enough time to adjust to the time zone. Is that really worth it, or do you just end up exhausted and cranky? Dublin keeps popping up as a doable spot, but I’m torn between trying something overseas or just picking a U.S. city I’ve never explored. I want something that feels meaningful, not just another box to check off.
Anyone else wrestle with the same mix of excitement and anxiety before traveling solo? Did you actually enjoy it, or did you spend the whole time wishing you’d brought a friend? I can’t decide if I’m being brave or just setting myself up for a weekend of awkward solo selfies and overpriced room service.
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