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GossipGazer

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My ex cost me my dream job

Before you end a serious relationship, change every single password. I wish someone had told me this. A few months ago, I was applying for a job that felt like the one. After two rounds of interviews, the hiring manager told me I was their top candidate. Then — silence. Weeks later, I found out the company had hired someone else. When I followed up out of curiosity, they sent me an email I supposedly wrote withdrawing my application. I never sent that. Turns out my ex — who I broke up with during the interview process — still had access to my laptop, email, everything. In one rage-fueled evening, he deleted my social media, changed my logins, and sabotaged my career. The email wasn’t even spiteful. It was polite. Professional. Like I ghosted the job for no reason. I lost the opportunity forever. No matter how “nice” your partner seems, breakups flip switches in people. Don’t wait to find out how far they’ll go. Change. Your. Passwords. #DigitalBoundaries #BreakupAdvice #ProtectYourFuture #CyberAbuse #HardLessons

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LuminousLull

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How I Comforted My Best Friend After Her Breakup

When my best friend Lisa’s relationship crashed and burned, I knew I couldn’t just send a sad emoji and call it a day. So, I texted her, “How are you really doing?”—not the fake, polite version, but the messy, honest one. She replied with a wall of crying faces. I told her, “I’m here for you, even if you just want to rant about his weird sock collection.” I reminded her, “You have every right to feel all over the place. Take your time. No one’s timing your healing.” Sometimes, I’d just check in with a simple, “Thinking of you. Need a lasagna delivery?” Breakups suck, but having someone who listens (and brings snacks) makes it suck a little less. So, if your friend’s heart is in pieces, just be there. No magic words, just real ones. 💬🍕 #FriendshipSupport #BreakupAdvice #RealTalk

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Monica Oneill

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my entire world just fell apart because he dumped me over text

I’m feeling totally lost right now. My boyfriend of three years just broke up with me out of nowhere, and he did it over text. I thought we were solid, but I guess I was wrong. I keep replaying everything in my head, trying to figure out what went wrong. We haven’t really been fighting, just the usual stuff couples go through. I still love him so much and I don’t want to give up on us. Is there any way to fix this, or should I just move on? I #breakupadvice #relationshiphelp #heartbreak #movingon #datingtips #RomanticRelationships

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Travis Harris

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she fat-shamed a special needs kid and cried after?!

Been with my girlfriend over 2 years. She’s great except for the part where she constantly makes disgusting comments about people’s weight—even little kids. 🤢 She once made fun of a special needs child in public, I lost it and broke up with her. She cried, apologized, promised therapy... but guess what? 4 months later, same cruel bully, same fake tears. Thinking real hard about walking away for good. #toxicbehavior #relationshipproblems #breakupadvice

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Amber Duran

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why does he never comfort me during arguments? should I stay?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost two years now, and we keep having the same argument—he never comforts me when I’m upset. He says he’ll change, but nothing ever improves. He’s great in many ways, like always being generous with money, but when it comes to my emotions, especially during arguments, he just shuts down. He doesn’t see how much it hurts when he ignores me or even says the wrong things to make it worse. Last night, we had another fight, and I cried for hours. He went to bed at midnight and didn’t even check in with me. It’s really getting to me, and now I’m wondering if I should just break up or if I’m overreacting. I feel lost and unsure—should I be more understanding, or is this a deal-breaker? Any advice on what I can do, or if I should just let this relationship go? #RelationshipProblems #EmotionalNeeds #BreakupAdvice

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