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Virginia Holland

When Co-Parenting Boundaries Are Tested at the Beach

Recently, I learned my ex took our kids to the beach and left them unsupervised while he went surfing. As a parent, I was flooded with worry—anything can happen near the water, and I always try to keep a close eye on them. It’s tough when co-parenting values don’t align, especially when it comes to safety. I want my kids to have fun and enjoy the ocean, but their well-being has to come first. Has anyone else faced situations where you felt your co-parent’s choices put your kids at risk? How did you handle it? Let’s share our stories and support each other through these challenges. I’d love to hear your thoughts or experiences in the comments below! #ParentingChallenges #CoParenting #FamilySafety #BeachDays #Parenting

When Co-Parenting Boundaries Are Tested at the Beach
Rebecca Murphy

what docs do I need to bring to my lawyer for divorce? 😳

I’m gearing up to meet with a lawyer about my divorce, and honestly, I have no clue what to bring beyond the basics. Obviously, I’ll bring bank statements and tax returns. But what else? So I’m gearing up to meet with a lawyer about my divorce, and honestly, I have no clue what to bring beyond the basics. Obviously, I’ll bring bank statements and tax returns. But what else? Here’s the situation: we both have our own cars, there’s about $30,000 left on the mortgage, and we have a 10-year-old child. No student loans. My income is $80,000, while his is $60,000. After taxes and expenses, we each clear about $50,000. He works for a union, and I run my own business. I want to make sure I’m fully prepared and don’t miss anything important. What should I have ready to discuss with the lawyer, aside from the usual financial stuff? #divorceprep #legaladvice #coparenting

what docs do I need to bring to my lawyer for divorce? 😳
john54

how do divorced dads stay close to their kids post-split? 😕

I recently finalized my divorce, and now I'm facing the toughest part: selling the house. It was our dream home, but it's too big for me now, and I need to downsize. It's tough, especially losing out on that 2.5% mortgage rate. I'm trying to keep my expenses low and focus on what matters—my kids. I want them to attend a great school, but my ex is looking to buy a place in a neighborhood I don’t want to move to, and her budget is higher than mine. Here’s my dilemma: if I move too far, I won’t be as involved in their day-to-day lives, especially if we're in different school districts. My ex says the kids will go to the school in her district, and I worry that if I don’t stay nearby, I’ll miss out on their friends, activities, and those small moments. Am I overthinking this, or is it worth trying to live closer to them, even if it means spending more? #divorceddad #coparenting #familyfirst

how do divorced dads stay close to their kids post-split? 😕
QuartzPhoenix

My Ex’s Girlfriend Ruined Our Family Weekend! 😱

Ever feel like co-parenting is just a wild ride you never signed up for? That’s exactly where I am right now. My 4-year-old daughter and I have always been a team, but suddenly her dad—who’s usually MIA—decides he wants to play the hero. No real talks, no plans, just chaos. Last weekend was supposed to be special—my mom’s birthday, family gathered at our place in Chicago. Her dad promised to drop her off by noon, but they didn’t show up until after dinner. I called, I texted—nothing. When my daughter finally came home, she was teary-eyed and told me her dad’s girlfriend chased her up the stairs, yelling. My heart broke. How do you trust someone who’s never been reliable, but now wants to call the shots? I’m torn between protecting my little girl and being forced to share her. Has anyone else survived this kind of family drama? Please, share your stories—I could really use some advice and support right now. 💬 #coparenting #familydrama #parentingstruggles #FamilyRelationships

My Ex’s Girlfriend Ruined Our Family Weekend! 😱
TwilightReverie

Juggling Four Kids, Two Exes, and Zero Weekends Off?! 😱

Sometimes I feel like my life is a never-ending game of musical chairs, but with kids instead of seats! My partner and I both have children from previous relationships—he has two (8 and 2 years old) with two different moms, and I have two (12 and 5 years old) with my ex. The twist? My partner is expected to have his kids every single weekend, while I alternate weekends with my ex. Because my partner works away all week, we barely see each other. When I finally get a kid-free weekend, he’s busy with his children, and when I have my kids, we’re suddenly a family of six! It feels like we never get any time for just us, and honestly, it’s wearing me down. We’re thinking about changing things up—maybe he could switch jobs to be around during the week and share weekends more fairly. But it’s so hard to figure out what’s right for everyone, especially when it seems like his exes get every weekend off. Has anyone else been stuck in this kind of family puzzle? How did you make it work? Please share your stories—I need some hope and advice! 🥲 #BlendedFamily #ParentingStruggles #CoParenting #FamilyRelationships

Juggling Four Kids, Two Exes, and Zero Weekends Off?! 😱
DigitalNomad

My Baby Daddy Moved On While I'm Still Broken 💔😭

Five months ago, my world crumbled when Jake walked out on me and our 10-week-old son. His reason? "I'm just not happy anymore." 😢 Can you believe that? I became a single mom overnight in our little apartment in Denver, trying to figure out how to juggle everything alone. Now I'm stuck in this nightmare of co-parenting with the man I'm still madly in love with. Every Tuesday when he picks up our son, my heart breaks all over again. 💔 We used to break up and make up all the time, so I kept hoping we'd find our way back to each other. But last night shattered that dream completely. I found out he slept with someone new. 😭 Even though I knew this day would come, it feels like a knife through my chest. How am I supposed to move on when I have to see him every week? Ladies, I'm desperate here. How do you get over someone when you can't cut them out of your life? I need your wisdom and support right now. 🙏 #SingleMom #CoParenting #Heartbreak #FamilyRelationships

My Baby Daddy Moved On While I'm Still Broken 💔😭
CharismaChameleon

Ex's Girlfriend Carousel Is Traumatizing My Kid! 😱💔

Y'all, I'm at my wit's end here in Phoenix! My ex-husband cheated, we divorced in January, and now he's already parading girlfriend number THREE around my 8-year-old. 😤 Our oldest son (12) refuses to see his dad anymore, but my youngest still does weekend visits. Now this man wants to introduce her to his latest fling AND her three kids because they're all moving in together! Three different women in ten months - seriously?! 🤯 I feel like I'm constantly explaining to my baby why Daddy has another "special friend." It's breaking my heart watching her confusion every time someone new shows up. Am I crazy for thinking this is too much chaos for a little girl? Please tell me I'm not the only mama dealing with this mess! 💕 #CoParenting #BlendedFamilies #FamilyDrama #FamilyRelationships

Ex's Girlfriend Carousel Is Traumatizing My Kid! 😱💔
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