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why do guys move on so fast like nothing happened?

Ever notice how after a breakup, he’s already out living life while you’re still trying to eat a sandwich without crying? It sucks—but there’s a reason. A lot of guys are taught to bury feelings instead of feeling them. So instead of processing, they distract. New hobbies, new people, acting fine. Meanwhile, you’re actually dealing with the pain, which might feel worse now but heals better later. It’s not that they don’t care—it’s just that emotional avoidance looks like “moving on,” when really it’s just delaying the crash. So if you’re still in your feels, don’t beat yourself up. Healing messy is still healing. #breakuptalk #healingjourney #emotionsarevalid #datingtruths #feeltoheal