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KookyKestrel

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My Family Called Me a Liar Until I Escaped Their Toxic Web 💔

Growing up, my family painted me as someone I wasn't - telling stories that never matched who I truly was. At 20, three weeks after my birthday, I became a mom. But instead of support, I got more of their vindictive games, so I kept my distance. 😔 My fiancé and I have been together for over 10 years, and despite losing four babies, we've built something real and positive together. Meanwhile, my daughter lives with someone else - my abusive ex who I had to flee from. Sometimes I wonder if I'm even part of this family or if I was adopted. 🤷‍♀️ Despite all the pain, I'm still hopeful about having a healthy baby soon. Past family trauma doesn't have to define our future, right? Have you ever felt like your family's version of you didn't match who you really are? I'd love to hear your story - sometimes we need to remind each other we're not alone in this journey. 💕 #familytrauma #toxicfamily #healingjourney #FamilyRelationships

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My Mom Ignored My Childhood Trauma—Now She Wants to Be Grandma?! 😱

Growing up in Chicago, my life took a dark turn after my dad passed away. My mom remarried, and my stepdad brought pain into our home that I still struggle to talk about. He abused me and my brother, and my mom knew but did nothing—she just walked by, pretending not to see. Now, decades later, she wants to be a part of my daughter's life. She’s never apologized or taken responsibility for what happened. In fact, she spent years calling us liars before finally admitting she knew about the abuse. I feel torn—am I wrong for not wanting her around my child when she’s never even said sorry? Sometimes I wonder if there’s any way to move forward, or if I’m right to keep my distance. Has anyone else faced something like this? I’d love to hear your thoughts and stories. 💔 #FamilyTrauma #MotherDaughter #ParentingBoundaries #FamilyRelationships

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