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andrea00

he said i’m not his real mom after 5 years—what now?

I loved that child like he was mine. From age 3 to 8, I was there—bedtime hugs, soccer games, tears, laughs, everything. Then his bio mom came back and my boyfriend told him she was his “real” mom. Now he won't look at me, won’t listen, says I’m not his mother. My heart shattered. I gave him everything. And the worst part? My boyfriend backed her up and left me alone in this. Now they’re begging me to come back—but after being tossed aside like that, should I? #blendedfamily #stepparentlife #needadvice

briana16

cat bites us HARD when excited—should we get her a buddy??

We’ve had our little cat for 2 months now—she’s about 1 year old and super energetic. But lately, she’s been biting a lot, and not in a cute love bite kind of way. Whenever she gets hyped up, she sinks her teeth into me or my husband, and it actually hurts. It’s always during play or when she’s running around being silly, never out of fear or aggression. Someone told us she might be bored and suggested we get another cat as a playmate. We're open to it, but not sure if that would help or just double the chaos 😂 Anyone dealt with this before? Will another cat help her chill out or just make the biting tag-team worse? #catbehavior #bitingcat #needadvice

katrina68

my cat keeps purring nonstop and biting me?? what now

My kitten has been purring like crazy lately, but something feels off. I always thought purring meant they’re happy or comfy, but this doesn’t feel like that. It’s constant, even when she’s just lying alone or after she bites me (which she does... a lot). I looked online and everything says "purring = good," but now I’m not so sure. Thing is, I can’t easily get her to the vet right now, and I’m feeling kinda lost. She’s adorable, but the biting makes it hard to bond—and I'm starting to feel like she’s not into me at all. Anyone else go through this? What helped? Any toys, calming sprays, or even just tricks that made your cat chill out and stop chomping on you? I really want to understand her better. 😓 #catbehavior #kittenlife #needadvice

markross

Deeply in love but struggling with desire...

My wife and I have been married for 10 years. She’s an incredible partner—loving, kind, supportive. I truly love her and can’t imagine life without her. But lately, I’ve been struggling with physical desire. I still have a high sex drive in general, but when it comes to her, it’s just… not the same. I got in shape, tried everything I could think of. Nothing changed. I’ve blamed it on age or stress, but deep down I’m confused and worried. I don’t want to hurt her—I just want to understand what’s going on with me. Has anyone else felt this way in a long-term relationship? #marriagethoughts #intimacystruggles #needadvice

Judy Miller

Help! My team won't stop the drama

Managing a young team and I'm so confused about handling their personal conflicts? Yesterday two associates had a blow-up that ended in tears, and now everyone's taking sides. Do I just address the unprofessional behavior or is there more I should do? I want a drama-free workplace but gossip seems inevitable. Any advice from seasoned managers? #WorkplaceDrama #ManagementProblems #NeedAdvice

mandy27

facility fees are highway robbery!

Just got a bill with over $2000 in "facility fees" for a MINOR derm procedure that took minutes! The actual doctor only charged a few hundred! Last time I had this done at a private practice, the ENTIRE bill was around $200. Who else is fed up with these hospital-affiliated clinics sneaking in these outrageous charges? Any success stories fighting these ridiculous fees? #HealthcareCosts #HospitalFees #NeedAdvice

zimmermanchristian

Thinking of getting a gecko? What should I know? 🦎

I’m seriously considering getting a gecko, but I’ve got questions! Should I get a baby or an adult? Male or female? I’d love one with a fun personality. Also… do they have to eat live bugs? Can I feed them anything else? How bad is their poop—like, how often do I need to clean? And do they bite? If you’ve got experience, drop your wisdom below! #GeckoLife #ReptileCare #NeedAdvice

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