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Thomas Woods

The rock drainage pit didn’t drain... and now I’ve got a mini pond. help!!!

I recently built a rock drainage pit at the corner of my yard to handle runoff from a gutter extension. I ran water through the gutter for 10 minutes to test it... and two hours later, I’ve got myself a stagnant little rock pool. Hardly any drainage happened. The soil underneath is super compacted, and I’m starting to think the landscaping fabric might be making things worse by trapping the water. I’m in Central Texas, if that helps with any soil/climate-related suggestions. Any tips on how to actually get this thing draining properly? I'm already dreading having to shovel all the rocks back out again, so if there's a way to fix it without starting from scratch, I’m all ears. Thanks 🙏🙏🙏 #DrainageDesign #YardWork #DIYFail #LandscapingAdvice #NeedHelp #Landscaping #Home #Backyard

The rock drainage pit didn’t drain... and now I’ve got a mini pond. help!!!
DigitalZenith

is my boyfriend even into me anymore or am i just wasting time?

Lately, I feel like my boyfriend barely notices me. We used to talk all the time and hang out, but now it’s like I’m invisible. He’s always on his phone or busy with something else. When I try to talk about how I feel, he just shrugs it off or changes the subject. I miss when things felt easy and fun. Now I’m just sad and confused most days. I keep wondering if he even cares or if I’m just hanging on to something that’s already over. I don’t want to give up, but I also don’t want to feel this lonely in a relationship. Has anyone else been through this? What did you do? I could really use some advice or just someone to talk to about it. relationshipadvice #datingstruggles #feelinglonely #needhelp #relationshipadvice #datingstruggles #feelinglonely #needhelp #RomanticRelationships

is my boyfriend even into me anymore or am i just wasting time?
Melissa Cherry

did my boyfriend just hint at cheating ?

So last night, my boyfriend and I got into a small argument about something silly. Out of nowhere, he said something like, "If you keep acting like this, maybe I’ll just find someone else who appreciates me." I was totally shocked. It felt like he was threatening to cheat if I didn’t change my behavior. We’ve been together for almost two years, and I’ve never heard him say anything like that before. Now I can’t stop replaying it in my head. Was he just angry and saying things he didn’t mean, or is this a red flag I shouldn’t ignore? I’m feeling super confused and hurt. I don’t want to overreact, but I also don’t want to let something serious slide. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? How do you even talk about it without making things worse? #relationshipadvice #trustissues #datingdrama #needhelp #RomanticRelationships

did my boyfriend just hint at cheating ?
I MATTER

Struggling With Meditation: Seeking Guidance and Support

Two years ago, when I was in Class 10, I started meditating, hoping it would help me focus better on my studies. I listened to OM mantras and focused on my forehead, the third eye area. At first, I felt relaxed, but over time, tension built up. Despite this, I kept focusing harder, thinking it would help. Now, I constantly feel pressure in my head, like something is stuck in my nerves, and it affects my breathing and my whole body. I've spent so much trying to fix this, but nothing has worked. Everyone says it's psychological, but I feel stuck and alone. Has anyone else faced this? Please share your experiences or advice in the comments. 🙏 #SpiritualJourney #MeditationProblems #MentalHealth #ThirdEye #NeedHelp #Spirituality

Struggling With Meditation: Seeking Guidance and Support
James Case

is it wild for my gf to want me to hang with her hookup buddy?

So, here’s the deal. My girlfriend and I have been together for a while, but a few months ago, she cheated on me with this guy from her friend group. We talked it out, and I decided to give her another chance. I thought things were getting better. But now she’s acting like everything’s cool and wants me to join her and this dude for video game nights. She keeps saying it’s not a big deal and that we should all just be friends. I’m trying to move past what happened, but honestly, this feels super weird and uncomfortable for me. Am I being unreasonable for not wanting to hang out with the guy she cheated with? Has anyone else been in a situation like this? I could really use some advice on how to handle this, because I feel stuck and don’t know what to do next. #relationshipadvice #trustissues #awkwardsituations #needhelp #RomanticRelationships

is it wild for my gf to want me to hang with her hookup buddy?