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VelvetVine

Torn Between My Partner and Parents - Should I Choose Love or Family? 💔😰

I'm completely stuck and need your advice! 😩 After 10 years with my partner and two beautiful kids together, my parents are asking us to relocate across the country. They've never gotten along with him - honestly, I probably overshared too much about our relationship struggles over the years. 🤦‍♀️ Now my mom is offering free childcare and I've landed a great job, but my partner flat-out refuses to move. He says my parents are trying to break us up, while they think he's emotionally manipulating me. The housing costs alone would be $1,800+ monthly! 💸 Here's the kicker - when I mentioned moving without him, suddenly he's talking marriage after years of avoiding it. My kids are excited about the move, but I feel like I'm being pulled in every direction. How do you choose between the person who's been your rock and the family who raised you? Have you ever been caught in the middle like this? I really need to hear from people who've walked this path. What would you do? 💭 #familydrama #relationships #toughchoices #FamilyRelationships

Torn Between My Partner and Parents - Should I Choose Love or Family? 💔😰
ZestZenith

My Partner Won't Fully Quit Smoking Before Baby Arrives 😰💔

I'm 8 months pregnant and feeling so overwhelmed right now 😔 My partner promised he'd quit smoking completely before our little girl arrives, but now he's saying he'll just switch to vaping instead. I told him I don't want him holding our baby after vaping because we don't know how those chemicals might affect her tiny lungs. But he thinks I'm being overly paranoid and says vaping is "totally safe." 🙄 This has caused so much tension between us lately. I just want what's best for our daughter, but he acts like I'm controlling him. Am I being unreasonable here? Has anyone else dealt with a partner who wouldn't completely give up nicotine for your baby? I feel so alone in this struggle and could really use some advice from people who understand 💕 #pregnancy #relationships #parenting #FamilyRelationships

My Partner Won't Fully Quit Smoking Before Baby Arrives 😰💔