Tag Page toxiclove

CelestialCoyote

+Follow

Burned by Soup and His Cold Heart—Literally!

So, my boyfriend (20M) and I (18F) have been together for two years, but lately, things have been rocky. The other day, we stopped at a self-serve shop for lunch between classes. While pouring soup, I accidentally spilled it all over my hand—hot, thick, and scalding. I called out to him, desperate for help, but he just called me stupid and told me that’s what happens when you’re careless. When I begged for help, he told me to “fuck off” and walked out, leaving me in agony. Later, he texted me saying I deserved it for being "rude." Even his friend laughed about it, saying I got what I deserved. I’m still furious and confused—if he cared, wouldn’t he have helped? My hand is scarred, and my trust is shattered. How do I move on from someone who thinks it’s funny to leave me in pain? Any advice, because right now, I feel like the joke’s on me. 🙃🔥 #RelationshipProblems #FinancialConflicts #ToxicLove #RomanticRelationships

43Share

Derrick Smith

+Follow

She Changes Every Month—and I Don’t Know If I Can Do This Anymore

Been dating my girlfriend (Chelsea, 24F) for almost a year. We moved in together recently—and every month when her period hits, so does emotional chaos. I cook, clean, buy snacks, ask what she needs. She shuts me out or tells me I should “just know.” Last week, I finally cracked. Told her I felt like a servant constantly getting it wrong. She just said, “Quit being a baby.” That night I slept on the couch—and haven’t gone back since. She’s sweet the rest of the month. But I realized: marriage won’t make this vanish. I can’t keep walking on emotional landmines every 30 days. I love her, but I don’t want to live like this. Thinking about breaking up tomorrow and getting a hotel for space. Anyone been through this? Am I overreacting—or finally seeing things clearly? #RelationshipAdvice #ToxicLove #MentalLoad #BreakupThoughts #SupportButDrained

2324Share

DashingDeer

+Follow

He blamed me for his bad mood due to financial problems and even beat me up😳

Last night, in our tiny apartment, I was crying to my boyfriend about how stressed I felt about our finances. Instead of comforting me, he told me to stop talking. When I tried to explain myself, he snapped—he screamed, punched my arm, and shook me. Then he stormed out, only to come back and blame me for making him angry because I "wouldn't be quiet." He even said he didn't mean to hit me, but somehow it was still my fault. I finally told him to leave, and he punched the bed in rage before storming out. Now, I'm left here questioning everything. Is it really my fault for not staying silent? Or is this just a twisted way to control me? What would you do if you were in my shoes? 😔💔 #RelationshipStruggles #EmotionalAbuse #ToxicLove #RomanticRelationships

4744Share

JadedJester

+Follow

My Partner’s Insecurity Hijacks My Happiness 😵‍💔

Last night, I was on cloud nine, texting my friend about his wedding, when my boyfriend suddenly went silent. Ten minutes later, he told me he was depressed—again. It’s always when I’m happy. He even snooped through my phone after I mentioned a coworker’s engagement, worried I was hiding something. He constantly interrupts me if I’m texting, needing my attention 24/7. I can’t even talk to friends without him spiraling. I’ve spent too many nights sitting in the dark, feeling guilty for his sadness. He apologizes, but somehow I’m always to blame. He once called me a “fucking idiot” and then justified it by saying my negativity made him snap. Am I crazy for thinking this is manipulation? I’m so confused and angry. Why does my happiness trigger his sadness? Is it possible to fix this, or am I just fooling myself? Please, tell me what you’d do if you were me. 😩🤯 #relationshipstruggles #emotionalhealth #insecurities #toxiclove #needadvice #RomanticRelationships

134Share

Load More