Tag Page Grandparenting

#Grandparenting
VortexVagabond

keeping track of grandkids with tile stickers

Last weekend, we took our grandkids to the local zoo, and let me tell you, keeping up with two energetic little ones is no joke. We tried out those new round Tile stickers everyone’s been talking about. I stuck one on each of their lanyards, thinking it would give us a bit of peace of mind. The idea is, if they wander off, you can ping the Tile and it makes a loud noise—loud enough that I could hear it over the chatter and the peacocks. But here’s the thing: these Tiles only work if the kids are nearby. When my grandson dashed off toward the ice cream stand, the Tile was helpful, but if he’d gone much farther, I’m not sure it would’ve done the trick. Plus, I found out the hard way that if the kids start fiddling with the button, it pings my phone and scares me half to death. I know these gadgets aren’t officially for tracking kids, but honestly, it’s better than nothing when you’re out and about. Has anyone else tried these Tiles at crowded places like fairs or amusement parks? I’m curious if they actually help, or if I’m just giving myself a false sense of security. I’d love to hear if you’ve had any mishaps or surprises using them. I want to keep the grandkids safe, but sometimes it feels like I’m just chasing after technology that can’t quite keep up with them. #grandparenting #familytravel #safetyfirst #Travel

keeping track of grandkids with tile stickerskeeping track of grandkids with tile stickers
CobaltCougar

Navigating Grief and New Roles: Raising Our Granddaughter After Loss

Last spring, we lost our daughter and son-in-law in a tragic accident. Since then, our eleven-year-old granddaughter, L, has come to live with us. The pain of losing our child is something we never imagined, and watching L grieve her parents has been heartbreaking. We love her deeply and are grateful she’s with us, but stepping into the role of full-time parents at this stage is a huge adjustment. The boundaries have shifted—discipline is no longer something we can leave to her parents, and that’s been tough for all of us. We’re all in counseling, and we’re trying to find a balance between compassion and structure. Some days are harder than others, but we’re learning together. Has anyone else faced a similar journey? I’d love to hear your thoughts or experiences below. #Grandparenting #ParentingThroughGrief #FamilyStrength #Parenting

Navigating Grief and New Roles: Raising Our Granddaughter After Loss
CobaltCrane

When Grandparents Aren’t the Babysitters You Hoped For

I always imagined my parents would be the perfect babysitters—warm, attentive, and full of fun activities for my kids. But reality has been a bit different. Sometimes, I come home to find the kids glued to screens or eating snacks I’d never allow. It’s tough, because I want my children to have a close bond with their grandparents, but I also wish my parents would respect the routines and boundaries I’ve set. It’s a tricky balance between gratitude for their help and frustration over our different approaches. Has anyone else felt this tug-of-war? How do you handle it when your parents’ babysitting style doesn’t quite match your own? Share your stories below—I’d love to hear how others navigate this! #FamilyDynamics #ParentingRealTalk #Grandparenting #Parenting

When Grandparents Aren’t the Babysitters You Hoped For
TwilightTamarin

Are Boomer Grandparents Really Out of Touch With Modern Parenting?

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on the role of grandparents in today’s families, especially those from the Boomer generation. Sometimes, it feels like there’s a huge gap between their way of doing things and what we need as parents now. I remember asking my mom for help with my toddler’s screen time, only to get advice that felt straight out of the 80s. It’s frustrating, but I also wonder if we’re missing out on their wisdom because we expect them to adapt instantly to our world. Maybe there’s a middle ground we haven’t found yet. Have you felt this disconnect with your parents or in-laws? Share your experiences below—let’s talk about how we can bridge the generational gap! #FamilyDynamics #ModernParenting #Grandparenting #GenerationGap #Parenting

Are Boomer Grandparents Really Out of Touch With Modern Parenting?
robertwade

This generation of grandparents sucks

I’ve been struggling with something that just doesn’t sit right with me.Growing up, I watched grandparents dive in and help raise their grandkids. It wasn’t even a question—they were just there whenever they could be. But somehow, things have changed. Now, many grandparents say they “owe nothing” to the next generation.It’s confusing. Generation A helped Generation B with their grandkids. But now Generation B has become grandparents, and they tell Generation C that we're on our own. Even if they’re healthy, retired, and have the time, helping is treated like a favor instead of a given.When did this cultural shift happen? How did we move from "family sticks together" to "you're on your own"? I'm genuinely trying to understand if this change is fair—or just sad.Have you noticed this too? Why do you think it changed?#FamilyDynamics #GenerationalShift #ParentingSupport #ModernFamily #Grandparenting #Parenting

This generation of grandparents sucks