ArtfulAmbit+FollowTerrified of Retirement Alone: No Kids, No Plan, Just Anxiety 😰I'm a 38-year-old woman working in Omaha, and lately, my mind is spinning with anxiety about retirement. I’ve decided not to have kids, so I can’t rely on family to care for me when I’m older. Every day at work, I’m distracted by worries about my future—especially when I see colleagues struggling with aging parents. I’ve started investing in a Roth IRA, but the cost of long-term care is terrifying. Even with a million dollars saved, it seems like it wouldn’t last long if I needed home care or assisted living. Insurance options are confusing and expensive, and I’m overwhelmed by all the choices. I’m reaching out because I feel lost and alone in this. How do I make sure I’m taken care of in old age? What should I invest in, and are there better options for insurance or care? I’d love to hear from anyone who’s figured this out. 🙏 #RetirementPlanning #ChildfreeLife #WorkplaceAnxiety286Share
OpulentOtter+FollowMy Retirement Funds Are Projected to Triple—Is This Normal?! 😳💸I was reviewing our retirement accounts with my husband last night, using our financial advisor’s online tools. To my surprise, the projections show our savings actually increasing—even tripling—over the next 30 years after we retire! Honestly, this has me feeling uneasy. Shouldn’t we be spending down our nest egg instead of watching it grow? Are we underestimating our future expenses, or is this just how these projections work? I’m worried we might be missing something important, and I can’t stop thinking about whether we need to re-evaluate our spending plans. Has anyone else run into this? I’d really appreciate any advice or reassurance. I just want to make sure we’re not making a big mistake with our retirement planning! 🙏💬 #JobCareer #Career #RetirementPlanning1619Share
VirtualVagabond+FollowQuitting My Job at 39—Wife Panicking Over Our Future! 😱💼I’m 39 and seriously considering retiring from my day job this spring. Honestly, I’m just burned out from years of mindless button-pushing and office politics. My wife, who earns over $200k a year and actually enjoys her work (just not full-time), is getting cold feet about my decision. She’s worried about our future and thinks I should just find another job instead of stepping away. Financially, we’re in a good spot: $1.3 million in stocks, $200k in cash, and about $1 million in real estate, with $85k a year coming in from rentals. Our two kids are healthy and in school, and both sets of parents are financially secure. Still, my wife’s anxiety is making me second-guess myself. Am I making a huge mistake by wanting to quit now? Or is she worrying for nothing? I’d love to hear your thoughts and advice—feeling pretty lost right now. 🤔💬 #CareerChange #RetirementPlanning #WorkLifeBalance #JobCareer122Share
TitanTwist+FollowShould I Retire at 31 With $8M? My Family Thinks I'm Crazy! 😰💸Hey everyone, I’m really struggling with a huge decision and could use some advice. I’m 31, and after working as a software engineer for years, I’ve managed to save up about $8 million after taxes, mostly from company stock. I don’t own a house yet, but I’m hoping to buy one in a pricey area like Mountain View or Palo Alto for around $4 million. Here’s the catch: I’m the only breadwinner, with a young child and another on the way. My wife is worried that retiring now is way too risky, especially since she enjoys a pretty luxurious lifestyle—think $100-200k a year on cars and designer stuff. I’m exhausted from the constant pressure at work and just want to spend more time with my family, but I’m scared of making the wrong move. Can we really live comfortably off the remaining $4 million, or am I being unrealistic? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences. I feel so lost right now. 😟 #JobCareer #Career #RetirementPlanning21Share
CrypticChord+FollowCan My Friend Really Retire at 55 in the Philippines on $1,000/Month?! 😲Hey everyone, I need some advice. My friend, Sarah, is convinced she can retire at 55 with just $350k in savings and live comfortably in the Philippines on about $1,000 a month. She’s sure her expenses will stay low, but I’m honestly worried she’s underestimating things. At work, I’m constantly stressed about job security and saving enough for my own retirement. Seeing Sarah so confident makes me question if I’m overthinking it or if she’s being unrealistic. I don’t know much about the cost of living in the Philippines, so I’m torn between supporting her dream and warning her to be careful. Has anyone here tried something similar or know if this is actually doable? I’d love to hear your thoughts or any advice you might have! 🤔💬 #RetirementPlanning #FinancialIndependence #WorkplaceStress #JobCareer #Career7792Share
Denise Kemp+FollowIs Real Estate the Key to Retirement? 🤔Robert Kiyosaki suggests skipping the 401(k) in favor of investing in multifamily real estate for a secure retirement. But experts say it’s not that simple! 🏢 While real estate has perks, don’t overlook the benefits of your 401(k). A balanced approach might just be the sweet spot! What do you think? #RetirementPlanning #RealEstateInvesting #FinancialFreedom #RealEstate2116Share
VelvetVisionary+FollowEarly Retirement Dreams Crushed by Social Security Uncertainty! 😩I'm 43, and my wife is 46. We've worked hard, saved diligently, and even paid off our house. Honestly, if we could count on Social Security being there as promised, we could retire today and live comfortably. But everywhere I turn, people keep warning us that Social Security might not be reliable or could be reduced in the future. This constant uncertainty is driving me crazy. We've planned so carefully, but now I feel like all our efforts might not be enough. I can't help but feel frustrated and anxious about our future. Have any of you faced this dilemma? How do you plan for retirement when the rules keep changing? I really need some advice from people who understand what it's like to have your plans thrown into doubt. Please share your thoughts! 🙏 #RetirementPlanning #SocialSecurity #WorkplaceStress #JobCareer2014Share
CelestialCrafter+FollowShould I Pay Off My Mortgage Before Retiring? Help! 😰🏡I bought my house in October 2020 with a killer 2.5% mortgage rate. Now, as I look ahead to retiring in 2038, I’m completely torn. Should I pay off my mortgage early or just let it ride until the end? I can afford to throw an extra $600 a month at it and have already prepaid $12k, but I keep second-guessing myself. My projected retirement income is $15k a month, and the mortgage is $2,200. My wife plans to keep working a few years after I retire, but what if things don’t go as planned? Work has been so stressful lately, and I’m desperate for some peace of mind. For those who retired with a mortgage, do you regret it? What would you do if you were in my shoes? Please, I need your advice! 🙏💬 #RetirementPlanning #MortgageAdvice #WorkplaceStress #JobCareer #Career3040Share
SapphireSlayer+FollowWidowed at 55, Burned Out at Work, and Unsure About Retirement 😔I’m 55 and a half, and life has thrown me some tough curveballs lately. I lost my husband seven months ago, and while I still find some joy in my job, working over 40 hours a week is wearing me down. I keep thinking about retirement, but the idea of working another 10 years just to reach Medicare feels overwhelming. My house will be paid off soon, and I’ve saved up for my son’s college, but most of my savings are tied up in retirement accounts, with only about $200k easily accessible. Property taxes are high—around $6,000 a year—so I wonder if moving to a different state would make sense when the time comes. I love my hobbies and know I won’t be bored, but the stress of the daily grind and uncertainty about the future keep me up at night. Has anyone else faced this crossroads? I’d really appreciate any advice or encouragement you can share. 🙏 #RetirementPlanning #WorkLifeBalance #CareerAdvice #JobCareer #Career2914Share
LotusLion+FollowTwo Years to Retirement, But My Mortgage Is a Headache! 😩🏠I’m just two years away from retirement, but there’s a huge cloud hanging over me: my mortgage. I still owe about $140k, with payments of $2,950 a month. The interest rate is low at 2.125%, and I do have enough saved up to pay it off without hurting my retirement plans. Lately, work stress has made this decision even harder. Office politics are at an all-time high, and I’m constantly worried about job security as I approach retirement. Should I just sell some investments and pay off the mortgage for peace of mind? Or maybe move the money into something safer like a CD or bond, and use that to pay it off slowly? Or should I just keep making payments and not overthink it? I’m really torn and could use some advice from those who’ve been in a similar spot. What would you do in my shoes? 🤔 #JobCareer #RetirementPlanning #MortgageAdvice1019Share