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GlitterQueen22

My Boyfriend's Drinking Is Ruining Our Trust (and My Carpet) 🤦‍♀️🍻

Living with my boyfriend in my cozy Chicago apartment was supposed to be a dream, but lately, it's been a nightmare. He's an amazing guy—kind, funny, and a great listener. But every few weeks, he drinks himself into oblivion, and suddenly my floors, laundry basket, and even my filing cabinet become his bathroom. I can't tell you how many times I've woken up in the middle of the night to chaos, anger, and the smell of disaster. We've had countless talks about trust, boundaries, and respect. He promises to stop, but then the cycle repeats. Last night, he shattered my mirror during a drunken workout. This morning, he texted another apology, but I just feel numb. Am I wrong for wanting more? Is it possible to rebuild trust after so many broken promises? Or am I just fooling myself? Honestly, I need your advice—how do you fix trust when it feels like it's already shattered? 😩🧹🍺🤷‍♀️ #RelationshipStruggles #TrustIssues #AlcoholProblems #Boundaries #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

My Boyfriend's Drinking Is Ruining Our Trust (and My Carpet) 🤦‍♀️🍻
CrystallineCrane

My mother seems to be secretly giving money to others 😳💔

Last night, I caught my mom sneaking out with her phone, whispering to someone who definitely wasn’t my dad. My stomach dropped. She’s the one who pays the bills, hustles for free meds, and keeps us afloat while Dad’s sick in bed. But now I can’t stop wondering—has she been using our family’s money for someone else? All those nights she said she was working late, was it just a cover? My sister and I are furious and lost. Do we blow up our family by telling Dad, or keep this secret and let it eat us alive? I feel like I’m drowning in lies and dollar signs. What would you do if your world flipped upside down overnight? 😔😤 #FamilyDrama #FinancialConflict #TrustIssues #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

My mother seems to be secretly giving money to others 😳💔
ScarletSky

Is being drunk an excuse to seduce someone else's boyfriend?😳📱

It’s a regular night in our small apartment, and suddenly my boyfriend Nick gets a drunken FaceTime from a group of his girl friends. They’re all giggling and M also said a lot of sexually suggestive things.” I was right there! My jaw dropped. I felt a mix of anger, confusion, and honestly, a bit of embarrassment. Why would they do that? And why did Nick just laugh it off? After stewing for a bit, I finally told Nick how uncomfortable it made me. He actually listened and explained everything, even showing me the texts where the main girl, M, apologized. She was super drunk and said it was just a dumb joke. I get it, but I still feel weird about those friends now. Trust is so fragile—one wild night and everything feels shaky. Have you ever had your trust tested like this? How did you handle it? I need advice, because I’m still not sure how to feel! 🙃🤦‍♀️🍸 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #Jealousy #Boundaries #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

Is being drunk an excuse to seduce someone else's boyfriend?😳📱
JollyJamboree

He Called Me a Thief Over a 30p Bag?! 😂🙄

So, my boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have been dating for a few months, and things were going well... until a plastic bag nearly ended us. We went grocery shopping, and I forgot to pay for a 30p bag. He got so mad, made me carry it through town, and even called me a thief—loud enough for everyone to hear! I was mortified, especially since I used to work at that store. Later, he kept bringing up the bag, totally ignoring how humiliated I felt. He said it was about the principle, not the money, but I just felt belittled. He even walked home at 3am after we argued! Am I overreacting, or is this a huge red flag? How do you rebuild trust after something so petty blows up? Please tell me I’m not crazy! 😤🛍️🤦‍♀️ #RelationshipDrama #TrustIssues #FeelingHumiliated #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

He Called Me a Thief Over a 30p Bag?! 😂🙄
TwirlTulip

My Friend Hit on My Boyfriend?! 😱🤯

Last weekend, my world flipped upside down. Over coffee, my friend (let’s call her Jess) confessed that two years ago, she drunkenly hit on my boyfriend—while I was in the bathroom! She swore nothing happened, and my boyfriend confirmed it, but hearing Jess say, “She’ll never know,” stung like crazy. Now, I’m torn between anger, confusion, and betrayal. How do you rebuild trust when the people closest to you cross boundaries? Should I forgive and move on, or is this a dealbreaker? I feel so lost. Would you cut ties, or try to patch things up? Please, tell me what you’d do—because right now, I’m not sure I can trust anyone. 😤😭🤡 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #FriendshipProblems #Infidelity #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

My Friend Hit on My Boyfriend?! 😱🤯
KookyKoala

My fiancée has no sense of boundaries when it comes to being with other men 😤🤡

Last weekend, my fiancée and I went to a pool party in LA, and honestly, I left feeling more like a stranger than her future husband. She got cozy with some guy, smoked with him, and they chatted alone for what felt like forever. Meanwhile, I was left on my own, feeling invisible. The guy even made a flirty comment about meeting her, right in front of me! She apologized later, but it stings—especially since she always expects me to be glued to her side at events. What really gets me is the double standard. She freaks out if I talk to other women, but here she is, acting like I don’t exist. Am I overreacting, or is this a real red flag? I’m honestly considering calling off the wedding. Have you ever felt so disrespected by someone you love? I just want to know—how do you rebuild trust after something like this? Or is it already broken? 🤔🥲 Talk to me like you’re my best friend—what would you do? #RelationshipTrust #DoubleStandards #Heartbreak #TrustIssues #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

My fiancée has no sense of boundaries when it comes to being with other men 😤🤡
EchoLark

A Night of Betrayal in Las Vegas 😳🤡

Last weekend, my husband and I (34M/28F) escaped to Miami for a spontaneous getaway. After a day of sun and cocktails, I crashed early and urged him to enjoy the night. But at 2AM, I woke up alone. His phone location was off, he ignored my calls, and our bank showed thousands spent at a strip club. He finally stumbled in at 3:30AM, wasted, and lied about where he’d been—even though receipts proved otherwise. He swears nothing happened, but how can I believe him after this? My trust is shattered, and I can’t stop replaying every detail. Why would he do this on our trip, with me just a few floors away? I feel betrayed, angry, and lost. If you’ve been through this, how did you rebuild trust—or did you? Please, I need your advice. 😤💔🤯 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #MarriageStruggles #Infidelity #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

A Night of Betrayal in Las Vegas 😳🤡
Thomas Woods

Should I Pay For Half Of My Neighbor's Fence Staining Cost?

My neighbor is a pain to deal with and has been talking smack about us on the neighborhood Facebook page. We have not been approached directly about this issue but she is now alleging we owe her half the cost of some fence repairs and staining. She says she and the previous owners agreed to a half and half split of maintaining it. Nothing of this sort was discussed with us at closing. For context the fence is two sided for most of their front yard. The only part of the fence that is on our side is our two gates. Once their back yard starts the fence becomes a shared fence separating our backyards. We have not seen any repairs on the fence in the three years we have lived here. I am just trying to get some advice before she approaches us about staining the front of her fence. #NeighborProblems #Fence #HOA #HomeOwnership #AdviceNeeded #Suburbs #Etiquette #LegalAdvice

Should I Pay For Half Of My Neighbor's Fence Staining Cost?